But that's now how Erika Girardi operates, and she finally lifted the lid on what really went down when she filed for divorce from her husband, Tom Girardi, after 21 years of marriage.
The Real Housewives of Beverly Hills Season 11 Episode 6 picked up with Erika arriving at Sutton Stracke's party, and she wasted no time in addressing "the elephant in the room."
"My life drastically changed this week. I let go of my Lamborghini, I let go of my 16,000-square-foot home, I let go of my marriage - I let go of everything. I literally made a decision that I had to," she shared with her Bravo co-stars.
Erika shed light on how the relationship ultimately broke down.
"I left because he pushed me further and further out,