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9/10
A woman of a certain age who loves it.
mrocco-120 December 2009
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I really love this show. At 49 I relate to the age specific part of the show. Being female it's really interesting to see the male version of my age group, the things that men are worrying and talking about.

In response to the comments made by r-w-anderson, he states that the music used to date these characters is somehow unrealistic. I completely disagree! There may be some people who define their musical memories by a very small slice of their history, but for most of us the most powerful memories come from those times when you were first learning to love music. When Neil Sedaka's 'Breaking up is Hard to do' came on (who is that woman?) I immediately remembered slow dancing with Jimmy Barnes, swaying back and forth like most 8th graders do when dancing. Or when they played the Billy Jack Theme song I could remember exactly where I was (a sleepover) with all of the girls singing it at the top of our little lungs. So don't tell me what the soundtrack of my life is. When I'm reminiscing I certainly would not crank up the disco unless I was having a disco party! The 'reminiscing' music of choice is almost always from the early 70's, mostly Motown. My brother who is 50 listens to the exact same type of music they play on this show on a daily basis. That's part of why he loves this show. As far as I'm concerned the music is spot on.

SPOILER: I think many people associate the word comedy for silly Hollywood sit-com fare. In a literary sense comedy is often a blend of tragedy and comedy, like Shakespeare. I think this shows hits a perfect note in that regard as well. The scene where Ray Romano's Joe watches the last second of the basketball game and realizes he's won is a brilliant example. He goes from being really exuberant about winning and goofing on the kid's inflatable Hulk toy to being disgusted with himself for gambling and punching it until it pops. The look on his face is priceless. Tragic and Funny.

I hope this shows makes it.
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9/10
Dramedy Worth Watching
Greatornot5 January 2010
I have to admit, I did not think Ray Romano can pull this off. 3 middle aged men on the brink of 50, HS pals going thru life's trials and tribulations. This is a most creative offering and refreshing. The casting is great. Ray Romano is himself a divorced man with 2 kids , rounding off this clique , you had Andre Baugher , happily married, and eternally young skirt chaser Scott Bakula of Quantum Leap fame. This was realistic with none of the added silliness of some TV for shock effect.There was no laugh track,which only adds to the realism. Certainly this program was more drama than comedy. Ray Romano, though not a great comedian, is elevated by the rest of this cast as he was in ELR. Ray Romano is the Bob Newhart of today, and thats not a bad thing. This is a tasteful program that truly does delve into everyday situations. If I have one criticism , I would like to see a little more comedy . Overall , This is still a wonderful effort and worth watching. Just make sure , you are optimally alert or the show can pass you by.
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8/10
Think outside of the box.
xxzerohopexx1 January 2010
In a very saturated market place there are few TV shows that can really stand out like this one has for me. It is so refreshing to see a show scripted like this one that isn't afraid to be just a bunch of average joe's with very average problems. The true beauty of this show lies much deeper than the simple characters we are first introduced too, i.e. 1. car salesman 2. out of work actor 3. party store owner. It's about the bold undertaking of how a bond of three friends who may no longer have much in common can still stand by each other. They clearly are not happy in both personal and professional life and it is here where I look most forward to watching these characters grow and take that first bold honest step forward into admitting such.

I understand a lot of the mixed and negative reviews with the show being sort of mundane about these '3 average joe's' that we otherwise shouldn't really care about, but I strongly feel this is what separates this show from the crowd.

Kudos to everyone involved in this show, I truly hope we can watch these characters continue to develop into what I think will be a great story.
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9/10
Brilliant
beercourt1 February 2010
These are flawed, likable men. It is refreshing to watch three-dimensional characters on television without having to resort to "reality" shows. Drama is not a bad word - no really it isn't. There is drama in every life, and placed into perspective it can be compelling entertainment. Well scripted drama, as opposed to the emotional breakdown of a spoiled 25 year-old heiress, makes watching television a good use of time. The comedic aspect of the show is the touch that makes this show so rich. If you're expecting to see Ray Romano rehashing Everybody Loves Raymond, you'll be surprised. Braugher and Bakula turn in creditable performances as well with outstanding support from Lisa Gay Hamilton, Richard Gant, and Jon Manfrellotti. If there were anything negative, I'd say that they are overusing the cable advantage (the ability to swear) just a little. There are times when it seems that the word "shit" is in the script just because it can be. In a show about middle-aged, middle-class men, a little profanity is authentic. But, the term "mother-shit" is not authentic by any means. Men of a Certain Age validates the humanity of men nearing 50. It paints them as real people who have passions, fears, faults, desires, and a sense of humor to cope with it all.
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10/10
Realistic Baby Boomers in Male Mid Life Stories
jimmatlock200418 December 2009
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At 50 myself, I readily identify with each character, especially Ray Ramono's. As a gambling addict myself, it the mirror in the face I've needed to show how my transgressions and excuses have made my life more complicated.

The three male characters all in their late 40's, offer a view of life from their own daily lives. One in a marriage with kids, working in a used car lot for his dad who doesn't respect him, deeply in debt and no where else to turn; while he also deals with his health issues. One, single over-the-hill actor who does day work in an office setting doing spreadsheets while surfing the web and taking breaks more than he works. And, Ray Romano's character runs a small party supply store who is coming out of a marriage because of his gambling addiction, while having time-to-time problems paying his bookie.

The three meet and talk around breakfast, run together, and more. This is definitely a male bonding program that has been long over due for TV. In a way, it's what the Golden Girls were to older women.

Ray Ramono has done it again. I loved, "Everybody Loves Raymond", now I'm loving, "Men of a Certain Age". The show has been successful in tapping into my age group and showing the reality of what men our age go through. It's definitely a testosterone show. Enjoy!
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6/10
Promising new series
TaskGazer15 December 2009
I believe that this is something to keep on watching. The three leads Ray Romano, Scott Bakula and Andre Braugher work out great in their very different styles and characters and the supporting actors are also well cast. It's always great to see Richard Gant for example.

I like how comic scenes in this series are mixed with very serious and sad moments, which make it feel real to me. Of course that's also because of the hand-held camera.

Very interesting format with a kind of nice feeling to it. I really like the mood, the style of the series and how the characters are portrayed. Looking forward to see how this is working out.
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9/10
Men of a certain age
kevin-t-healy22 December 2009
As a 51 year-old man, I feel like I fit into the "certain age" that the show is based on. A lot of new things happen at this age. You begin to think more about what and how much you eat. You hope that your kids won't be cursed with the same quirks that you have. You wonder if women are still attracted to you. You wonder if you're still cool, or if you were ever cool. This show deals with these subjects and many others in a truthful and funny way. The writing is excellent, the acting is fantastic, and the cast is wonderful. Romano, Bakula, and Braugher are really good together. I really look forward to Monday evenings because of this show.
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8/10
A brilliant series that was cut down in its prime
The_late_Buddy_Ryan21 March 2013
Probably should come as no surprise that this smart, funny series about three likable guys from the outer reaches of LA only lasted for two seasons on TNT, a network that tends to go in more for sexy-but-damaged blond detectives, smart-mouthed lawyers and (more recently) the reanimated JR. Maybe the fact that an important theme of the series was coping with middle-aged disappointment and scaled-back expectations failed to endear it to fans of (no offense, Ted) formulaic, escapist basic cable. Ray Romano is clearly the perfect casting choice for a part written by and for Ray Romano, Andre Braugher is always welcome, but the big surprise for us was journeyman action hero Scott Bakula ("Quantum Leap," "Star Trek: Enterprise") in the role of Terry, an attractive, confident guy whose acting career seems to have petered out before other opportunities have petered in. Viewers who have experienced such midlife phenomena as sleep apnea and post-divorce dating jitters may find this series especially compelling; strong supporting cast includes Lisa Gay Hamilton as AB's sexy, beyond supportive wife, Jon Manfrellotti as RR's bookie and third-best friend and Emily Rios (who in her brief career has already been on three of the best shows in recent TV history).
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9/10
Men of a certain age a brilliant show that's worth giving a try!
RUKIA2216 February 2010
Men of a certain age is really a fantastic show.I love Scott Bakula and he was actually the main reason I wanted to see this show in the first place and I've been a fan of his ever since Quantum Leap. Scott is great as Terry and still looks as hot now as he did in his Quantum leap days! The man just shines! and is a wonderful actor. I'm liking his character more and more and he's really grown on me because at first I thought he was quite a jerk but from some of the episodes I've seen you really do feel for him I also found myself rooting for him with every episode. There are very funny moments followed by sad and that's the reason for this shows success Men of a certain age is a very special show. I really hope this show gets screened here in the UK. MOACA has been a big success in the US and has already been renewed for a second season. I love this show, and the actors in it...so real, so true, so emotional!! Well done Ray, Scott,and Andre!This show is the most "real" show I think that I've ever seen. Love this show! So true to life and very funny.
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10/10
Heading into the Classic Vault
inquiries-1715 August 2010
Not since the 70's classics, such as All in the Family, The Waltons, Barney Miller, and M*A*S*H, has there been a ensemble cast with such a depth of characters and circumstantial and contextual realism as Men of a Certain age. This series strikes me as a straight drama with various flavors of comedy, from raucous to bittersweet, sprinkled in. As a 47-year-old male I can relate to it completely, but not that relating matters, since I enjoyed M*A*S*H and All in the Family equally when I was in my teens.

When truth is poignantly portrayed through writing, acting, and production you can't miss it. It's the magic coming together of the whole and celestial alignment that happens when courage and genius are found on both sides of the lens. This show shines and is the first I would be willing to watch in SD on my HDTV since the aforementioned series of the 70's. Nothing is overdone: no melodrama, no ego trips, no pretense, no glamor, nothing special - just wonderful, richly textured exposures of characters made compelling by the final link in the chain - the actors.

As a fan, I sincerely hope they stick to the formula and don't pull a Mork and Mindy - a highly successful piece of fluff, until Mork's character was "expanded" out of its established zone.

It's an easy, deserving, lone 10 in an ocean of "reality T.V." and other vomitous, puerile, formulaic, Hollywood, corporate morass.
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10/10
Not just for that certain age
airforcelaw17 March 2010
My husband and I really enjoyed this show. We are both in our early 30s yet we found this true to life, comical, and not at all dated. The casting, acting, and writing are superior to most of the garbage on TV. There's not a whole lot my husband and I can agree on watching together, but this is certainly a great show. Loved the realities they weave into this show down to doing what you have to do for your family (working at dad's car dealership) and how through it all there are unexpected and pleasant surprises. There's always that one friend that can't seem to get it together and seems to have things handed to him yet you love em anyway. Enjoyed it right down to the season finale. We just hope to see it again next year...don't cancel this show!!
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7/10
True friends
hastie-122 December 2009
This show has potential. The characters have personality and a certain reality about them, you feel like they could be people you know.

Ray Romano's character bring's out the best of him. I saw him on The Last Word recently which portrayed him as depressive and his sense of humour really blooms with this type of character.

The way the three friends interact with each other shows their familiarity and brings you into the bond they share. I like how the show doesn't concentrate on one demographic and the three friends have very different lives (which friends often do). I see this show relating to many people and bringing a broad audience.

I would like to see more of this show to see where they take the characters. Although I am younger than the guys I find I can still see them as real people in my community.
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9/10
Awesome show
Rox7319 August 2013
It's a real shame they cut this one short in the middle of an avalanche of mediocre vampire- cop- CSI - whatever TV shows that have no substance.

Here's a show that normal people who are middle-aged can relate to and I think younger people can too, not just because it has substance and a sense of humor but also because we will ALL get there. We all grow older. As a 40-something woman I'm not particularly interested in watching brainless 20-something's TV shows anymore.

I loved each and every episode so thank you for trying Ray Romano. You hit the nail right on the head. It's just a shame these people at TNT are so disconnected from reality that they have no idea what us normals want to watch.

Btw. the music was awesome
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A great new TV show. I can't wait to see more.
DarkHalfCultCrew17 December 2009
So far I have seen both episodes of "Men of a Certain Age" and I have to say I am impressed. Ray Romano, Andre Braugher, and Scott Bakula seem to fit very well together. Ray Romano plays a great role in this show, much better then any thing else I have seen him in. This series shows the lighter side of getting older. The only thing I don't like about this series is it seems each episode ends when it seems like there should be more, but that's just their way of keeping the audience wanting more.

All in all I found this new series to be very enjoyable and I would recommend it to anyone and everyone.
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10/10
Still miss this show
mick987g2 January 2013
I Still this show. It was a great show , it talked about issues that happen to people of a certain age.

But As Ray Romano said other Networks wouldn't touch it because it didn't have car chases or explosions.

And I guess TNT felt that way too after a bit.

Shame because it was well written , the main actors seemed to have a great chemistry as well Sad that the most popular shows are "Reality Shows!

And now gasp we find out that reality shows are plotted out I.E. Like storage wars.
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9/10
They should reboot this...
joibevineau412 June 2021
Just watched this show for the first time on HBOmax. It was way better than I expected. The cast has great chemistry, it is laugh out loud funny, but also touching. Was disappointed that there's only 2 seasons. It could easily be rebooted and most definitely should.
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10/10
Men of a Certain Age
writesromine2 June 2011
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The media blurb for this show is three college friends, now adults remain close as they work through the trials of life. Yawn, right? Wrong! This show is much more than the standard shallow melodrama we see so often during Prime Time.

The journey of men who happen to, in odd circumstance, be friends. All in their mid to late forties, each character's plot line meshes with the others in sort of dense soup one experiences in real life.

Terry, portrayed by Scott Bakula, is a 'think I could' have a career B movie actor. He is handsome, charming, flirtatious and egocentric.

Andre Braugher is Owen, family man, good guy, and bread winner. The twist with Owen lay in his job as a car sales man at his father's dealership. Owen wants to be his father's son. Owen's father wants his son to be someone else.

Joe is portrayed by funny man Ray Ramono. After his wife tells him that she needs to 'move on' Joe's painful transition from married to divorce includes a gambling addiction, re-introduction to the singles world and life without his kids.

In truth this is probably one of the most brilliantly painful shows to watch next to the former ER. The three main characters have a unique depth rarely seen or accurately portrayed outside the commercial cinema. Plots and dialog are sharp, quick witted and realistic giving the backdrop of almost reality television.

The three characters while each unique all face the same questions. Where is life going? Have I made the right decisions? What am I leaving behind? What have I given up? The life truth everyone of us faces is written and portray in the actions of these three ordinary men.

The subtle yet realistic barriers these men face are a wonderful strong example of amazing writing. When you watch a character stumble, and you wince, a connection has been made. It tugs, pulls and in turn challenges you to think about your own life in the context. Surprising performances by all three actors warrants an Emmy nod at the very least. If you have not given this show a shot, I highly recommend it.

Amy Romine BellaOnline's Prime Time TV Editor http://www.bellaonline.com/articles/art4448.asp
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8/10
good show..second characers
duaneincali6 November 2021
Very above average show that has excellent acting and humor from the three stars. Shows the fifty-something guy thing as well as anything as. But I would say it is not for guys only.. It tackles the divorcee dating thing that both sexes can relate to extremely well. Highly recommended. "Manfro" is in the exalted territory of highly rated second characters.
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10/10
I loved this show!
blosnich752-15 May 2017
It is a shame that this show was cancelled. It was far better than anything currently on TV today! It also introduced me to Andrew Braugher, and what a wonderful actor he is. Oh, I need 5 lines to post a comment. Here we go.

Blah. Blah. Blah.

Let's see if that will do???
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10/10
Ray Romano is the Catholic Seinfeld!
dataconflossmoor12 January 2010
I am of Italian descent, and in Hollywood, we are the poor man'a bevy of creativity. We do have a couple of halfway decent directors, Francis Ford Coppola and Martin Scorcesse, they aren't as good as any Jewish director, right? Such a situation may pertain to the show "Men of a Certain Age" The format is very intriguing. The premise being, "I still have plenty of sex appeal even though I am over 50, don't I? To which the person required to respond to that question, retorts "How much money do you have in your pocket?" The whole genre is set up whereby sexual ambiguity is the assassin which rattles the resolve of a couple of sedentary and assertively middle age reprobates! This rancor coerces them to retrench into a metaphorically fetal position! Now enters the fiasco of being timid and taciturn one moment, and loquacious and intrepidly lewd the next! Theatrics of this nature definitely establish a formidable state of flux for the "one a day" casual dating scene! This show jumps around, and obsesses on unofficial ground rules which only make casual dating infinitely more difficult. The episode I saw last night had Ray Romano's date receiving a cell phone call from the bar, from a friend of hers, to give the verdict on her blind date, She said the guy (Ray Romano) was "sexy". After thorough rumination of this entire scenario, I just want to say one thing; Over 50!! Sexy? Women are going to have to explain that one to me. Ray Romano wound up with a cut under his eye, it is almost as if his insecurities to mid-life crisis dating have the ability to physically bludgeon him!! I like what I saw, however,I think the dialog should be more acrimonious! Also, there should be a largess of fatalistic repercussions which rear their ugly head far more emphatically, and with it, they should contain a wealth of abominable consequences!! In the episode I saw, everything was extremely mollified! This series is funny! Scott Bakula ("Quantum Leap") and Andre Baugher, are very cohesive on this show!! Nevertheless, "Men of a Certain Age" could be funnier!! Then again, what do you expect? The director is Catholic!! How does the expression go? He's more nervous than a television stand-up comic on a Jewish holiday!!
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9/10
I wish it would come back
wannasurf231 December 2011
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This is the first show of this sort I've seen in many years from a regular network that was this well put together. Sure, it's not perfect, but it is serious, yet funny at times, and gives the occasional wink to the viewers. Best of all, you really grow to like the characters. Romano is perfect in his role, as is virtually everyone else in the cast. Multiple story lines run parallel, and then intersect at the end...love it.

Are there any real problems with the show? Well, it can be a little heavy handed at times...in Modern Family fashion, some episodes transition to "totally sappy" right at the end. And often the writers beat the "middle-age thing" in the ground...in the same fashion that The 80's Show did with period pop culture, to their dismay. And the major problem with the show was the casting of Bakula. The first episode I caught had these guys speaking of their *upcoming* 50th birthday. I was like WHAT?

I ran straight to the computer to check Bakula's age. Yes, I was right...he would have been around 56 or so when filming. Sure, that isn't that big of a stretch for Hollywood, but let's face it, he's old looking even for someone pushing 60...despite the "youthful energy" that has been written into his role or how "hip" they make his blond-dyed hair. In the past, the rule when casting someone older than their part is that they must look young for their age...not the opposite. OK, I admit there was Luke Perry (90210) as well as Tom Welling (Smallville)...both high school freshman in the first season, yet both in their mid 20's and showing every year.

Either way, Bakula in this role will bother you for at least a half dozen episodes before you can block it out. But eventually, the show is so good that it makes you use your imagination...in the way that people did back in Greek days when men played woman's parts. Suggestion: Start looking at like he is the older friend that happened to start college at, say 26 when the others were 18, and it will all make sense, as long as you ignore the many age-milestone cues that come at you like machine gun fire.
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10/10
Painful to watch.
mbarkr4 February 2010
And I mean that in a good way.

It's painful for me to see what these guys go through, them and their families. This is life, folks.

A good buddy of mine called this a humorous show. I think it is more fair to call it a hu-morose show. It has humor, definitely. But it is also morose. The feelings of despair and hope and love and hate and everything else that you get in life - this show depicts. And they do it well.

I AM 40. I HAVE gone through a divorce. I was a Step Parent for 10 years. There are times you DO feel trapped and wish your life had been different. But you keep keeping on. You do your absolute BEST with the hand that you, and fate, has given you.

You persevere. Because that's what you do. That's what life is.

This show gives you that. The actors, the writers, the music - it all combines very well. There are times it so close to home, you almost have to turn it off - and you get that tight feeling in your chest that we all get when life kicks you in the gut.

If you can handle that - this show is something you must watch.

If you can't handle it, or maybe just don't want to use your "TV-Watching-Time" on something that will do that to you - then skip it.

I count myself in the first category. I am invested in the life of these characters, because they truly ARE us.
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7/10
As Arte Johnson Would Say... Verrry Interesting...
dwacon-29 December 2009
When I saw the promo, I thought... what an odd combination of actors. Ray Romano... deadpan comedian. Scott Bakula... the Quantum Leap guy. And Andre Braugher... heir apparent to the gravitas of James Earl Jones. What the... ??? Then, I saw that this was put together by part of the "Everybody Loves Raymond" team. Hmm... interesting.

Certainly not a comedy on the same level as ELR, but there were a few laugh out loud moments. Maybe the absence of a laugh track made it feel like a revival of the "dramedy" genre? The pilot was rated TV-MA mostly for a few S-bombs, not the nudity that "Saving Grace" has brought to the network.

The pilot certainly establishes the three leads. The question is, where will the show go? I am thinking wish fulfillment for men of that certain age. That could be enough to keep me tuning in.
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8/10
A perfect slow, atmospheric, natural depiction of middle age life.
eslyapin-8473426 December 2020
May be a bit boring if you prefer action movies. A gem if you prefer natural dialogues, deep characters. Generally positive and light to watch (at least it doesn't leave hard feelings or depression)
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10/10
I love it
charityhendrickson2 September 2018
This show is so funny and real. Im a 37 year old woman and somehow I feel so connected to the characters. Im amazed that Ray Romano could create another show as amazing as Everybody Loves Raymond. I love how it has his unique outlook on life and that its a completely different kind of show than Raymond.The characters and story are funny and real. I wish they had made more seasons. I really didn't want it to end.
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