Mismatched cousins reunite for a tour through Poland to honor their beloved grandmother, but their old tensions resurface against the backdrop of their family history.Mismatched cousins reunite for a tour through Poland to honor their beloved grandmother, but their old tensions resurface against the backdrop of their family history.Mismatched cousins reunite for a tour through Poland to honor their beloved grandmother, but their old tensions resurface against the backdrop of their family history.
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Jakub Gasowski
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"Grandma Dory" has passed away and left her two grandsons some money so that they can take a trip to Poland and see where she grew up amidst the Nazi invasion and subsequent holocaust. These two are cousins. "David" (Jesse Eisenberg) is a bit of a shy, geeky, type who lives in New York with his wife and child. "Banji" (Kieran Culkin) is quite the opposite. A free spirited, thinking and speaking individual who cares little for what anyone else thinks about him. The pair clearly love each other, but the behaviour of the latter continues to rattle his travelling companion, especially when they meet up with the other members of their touring party in Warsaw. What now ensues is quite a testament to both Eisenberg's vision as a writer/director but also to the inspired casting of Culkin. He is the kind of holiday companion I'd cheerfully have killed with a rusty harpoon. Loud, brash, opinionated and sometimes borderline cruel as he imposes himself on the group swearing as he goes. Gradually, though, we discover that both men have shields up; both are dealing with some fairly deep psychological issues in their own way and even ought these may clash, there is still far more fundamentally connecting them that not. There are ample opportunities to see the sights of Warsaw, and there is an haunting few minutes at the Majdanek camp where shoes, thousands and thousands of shoes, make you shiver. It's potent and it's often funny, darkly so, and in many ways it slots nicely into the recent panoply of dramas about the fascination by younger generations in the horror of war that those who endured actually want to get past and forget. It also shines a light on the whole business of tourism around these monuments, and does make it quite clear that sometimes these trips can become a statistical box-ticking exercise, especially for Americans, who want to say they've "done" that. An architectural monument equivalent of a safari "big five". In the end I found "Benji" to be a vulnerable but fundamentally selfish and unlikeable character - but I bet there are many reading this who profoundly disagree. That's proof that these two did their job well and I'd recommend you go see it in a cinema for a couple of powerful and characterful performances.
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- TriviaJesse Eisenberg wrote the role of British tour guide and historian, James, for his friend, actor, writer and director Richard Ayoade. Ayoade thought he would have been a bad fit for the role and his presence would have been too distracting for a serious drama like this so he suggested Eisenberg offer it to Will Sharpe instead.
- GoofsIn Krasnik city, they caught a red train under the Polregio banner to go back to Lublin, but in the next scene, they were already in a blue train operated by PKP Intercity.
- Quotes
Marcia: Last year my daughter married a very rich man.
Benji Kaplan: Oh, fuck.
Marcia: And she's incapable of having a conversation with any depth anymore.
Benji Kaplan: Well, yeah, of course. Money's like fucking heroin for boring people.
- ConnectionsFeatured in CBS News Sunday Morning with Jane Pauley: Episode #46.44 (2024)
- SoundtracksNocturne No. 2 in E-Flat Major, Op. 9, No. 2
Written by Frédéric Chopin
Performed by Tzvi Erez
Courtesy of Niv Classical
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- Also known as
- Un dolor real
- Filming locations
- Majdanek, Lublin, Lubelskie, Poland(concentration camp)
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- Gross US & Canada
- $8,344,978
- Opening weekend US & Canada
- $228,856
- Nov 3, 2024
- Gross worldwide
- $24,856,027
- Runtime1 hour 30 minutes
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- 1.85 : 1
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