You ever know someone who was extremely self-important and acted like everything they did needed to be met with applause and attention? Unfortunately, that's what we have here. I went into to this looking for an interesting true crime story and instead spent several hours watching two fairly unlikable people talking to each other. There's no denying that the man at the heart of this story was a scumbag... but his wife comes across as a spoiled and whiny person who makes everything more dramatic. "These were people IN MY OWN TOWN," she complains. She complains about him telling her he still loved her. She complains that some of his friends wrote letters vouching for his character, all the while acting incredulous. The podcast host just comes across as an entitled person who thinks everything they say is important. It's hard to take her seriously when she's sitting there telling her friend how brave and strong she is with a contrived look of concern on her face.
Another great part was his wife acting disgusted that one woman sent Spence naked pictures and let him record her giving him oral sex. "What kind of woman would do something like that? She asks.
Well, I guess we can tell what kind of sex he was getting at home.
And then there's some of the women he cheated on her with. One in particular made me fight back a chuckle as she told her story of meeting Spence and sensing that he was interested in her. "I don't even remember how I ended up giving him my number," she says. Well ma'am, you gave it to him. He didn't force it out of you. You were sober. Then she relates how she was a victim because she met him in a parking lot the very next day and had sex with him. Again, ma'am, you gave a man you were attracted to your phone number and met him the next day for sex entirely of your own volition. You are not a victim.
Spence had an affair with one of his wife's friends and apparently she was somehow a victim too. It just gets to be a bunch of people taking no responsibility for their own actions.
The last episode that focuses on his teenage victim is a little better. It's not a fun story, but at least in this one we really see the criminal side of his actions.
I agree with others that this whole thing could have been cut down to about an hour. There was just too much useless information, too much repetitive talking about his affairs and way too much of the podcasters. I've seen serial killer documentaries that were shorter.
Another great part was his wife acting disgusted that one woman sent Spence naked pictures and let him record her giving him oral sex. "What kind of woman would do something like that? She asks.
Well, I guess we can tell what kind of sex he was getting at home.
And then there's some of the women he cheated on her with. One in particular made me fight back a chuckle as she told her story of meeting Spence and sensing that he was interested in her. "I don't even remember how I ended up giving him my number," she says. Well ma'am, you gave it to him. He didn't force it out of you. You were sober. Then she relates how she was a victim because she met him in a parking lot the very next day and had sex with him. Again, ma'am, you gave a man you were attracted to your phone number and met him the next day for sex entirely of your own volition. You are not a victim.
Spence had an affair with one of his wife's friends and apparently she was somehow a victim too. It just gets to be a bunch of people taking no responsibility for their own actions.
The last episode that focuses on his teenage victim is a little better. It's not a fun story, but at least in this one we really see the criminal side of his actions.
I agree with others that this whole thing could have been cut down to about an hour. There was just too much useless information, too much repetitive talking about his affairs and way too much of the podcasters. I've seen serial killer documentaries that were shorter.
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