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7/10
Early TV movie about adopted children seeking their parents
WillEd5 April 2011
When looking up this movie to answer an inquiry, I was surprised to see it had no user reviews.

This was certainly a better than average TV movie, was well publicized when released, had two well known actors in the leads, and was directed by Larry Pierce, the director of Goodbye Columbus, the movie that introduced Ali MacGraw and had her best performance (a lot of us thought she could act based on it until Love Story proved us wrong.

Meredith Baxter is a young woman with adopted parents who is searching for her actual parents. Beau Bridges is a young man she becomes involved with on an identical quest. Whitney Baxter, the mom on the TV sitcom Hazel and Meredith's actual mother, makes a brief but important appearance at the movie's climax.

I haven't seen it since, but was pretty impressed at the time, no world beater, but nicely acted, written, and directed.

What more do you want from a TV movie?
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5/10
There's a reason why adoption records were confidential.
mark.waltz27 April 2021
Warning: Spoilers
Certainly, it's natural that young Meredith Baxter wants to find out information in regards to her natural parents. But she has such loving adoptive parents (Neva Patterson and Walter Brooke) that it becomes hurtful to them that you would even consider going out on this journey, and once in L. A. where she finds out she was born, she joins forces with a young man (Beau Bridges) searching for his natural parents, and after hitting the wall at several tries, joins a group dedicated to help other adopted adults find their parents, and this leads to success for some, failures for others, and for Baxter, a terrifying meeting at the conclusion.

This is a sometimes moving soap opera that has some great moments and other moments that are cringe-worthy. At one point, the group Baxter and Bridges are in becomes like a cult or a messy A. A. meeting, with members arguing over various aspects of their feelings about adoption and being parents who gave up their child, or parents who chose a child. Whitney Blake has an important cameo at the very end that is really hard to take, so at least the circle ends up being complete.

There is a haunting theme song that may stay with you long after the film is gone, and an important lesson to learn, but the many soap opera elements are a bit comical unintentionally, and a few intentionally funny moments ridiculous, particularly Maxine Stuart as a hospital secretary complaining about the cafeteria meatloaf.

What ends up being disturbing is the way that lives are disturbed by being interrupted, and it reminds me of the absurd retconning of Jill Foster on "The Young and the Restless" where out of the blue after the years, she discovered that she had been adopted. Bridges is rather over the top but I blame that on the writing for his character, and Baxter tries too hard to be noble even though she ends up turning someone's world upside down. The one true note is the performance by Blake at the end that makes you realize that this was just not worth all of the pain that many people had to face because of an immature decision.
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7/10
Old Fasioned But Worth Seeing
twokeets10 November 2023
I love old Lifetime movies (when they were good), and this movie qualifies. It's from the early '70's and it feels like it, but the acting is great, and what's wrong with a trip down memory lane? The young woman has a hard time trying to find her birth parents. It must be easier now, with the internet, and maybe kids who were adopted have more rights. In this story, she hits a lot of brick walls. My favorite part of the movie was the perhaps too-long rap session scene where adults who were adopted have this emotional sharing session with people who put their own kids up for adoption. It really took me back!
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A so moving story
searchanddestroy-19 October 2016
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The first hour of this TV movie is very interesting, especially the long discussion among people in search of their biological parents and the different points of view between each of them. You have the feeling to watch a documentary. This is the pure TV movie scheme, a search for biological parents. But the true amazing, terrific sequence is the final one, when SPOILERS SPOILERS SPOILERS the female lead finally meets her mother. Oh god, it's an unforgettable scene, when the two females meet. So poignant, I almost cried, wept. I love this TV film. I guess many features exist about this topic. I am very proud to have watched it.
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