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(1979 TV Movie)

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7/10
Pedestrian TV movie with top cast
mrb198018 March 2021
Many TV movies are rather banal things, with bland characterizations and limited insight into their subject matter. TORN BETWEEN TWO LOVERS is pretty routine but it does have a great trio of actors and a top director (Delbert Mann) who manage to put the plot across quite well.

Diana Conti (Lee Remick) is happy married to Ted (Joe Bologna) when she meets up with architect Paul Rasmussen (George Peppard) while both are stranded at an airport by a snowstorm. Diana and Paul fall in love and begin a passionate affair, during which she must choose between her longtime husband or her exciting new lover.

While we've seen all of this before, the star cast kept me interested during the entire film. Remick appeared to become more beautiful the older she was, and Bologna and Peppard are fine, although Peppard was getting a little lazy by this stage of his career. It was nice to see an Italian-American character (Bologna) who wasn't temperamental and overly emotional, and it was also nice to see sturdy character actor Jess Osuna in a brief bit. TORN BETWEEN TWO LOVERS isn't a landmark movie or a breathtaking experience but it's very good on its own terms--a pleasant and modest story.
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5/10
Mostly just thoughts
sooftennegative22 July 2020
Warning: Spoilers
I can't remember when I fell in love with Lee Remick. She was about 20 years my senior when I was growing up and when I think about those blue eyes looking through me from the screen, I get a bit nostalgic. Even when they were on black and white TV, they were blue. It killed me when her character died in The Omen. Especially true since she died with those eyes wide open. George Peppard was someone I envied. A good looking ladies man that I would never be. I remember well when his character died in the final moments of The Blue Max. It was a good role for him and he got to play a "bad guy." Both of these actors are actually gone now, so I am really glad I have nothing bad to say about their performances.

This simple low budget made for TV movie is probably something neither of them remembered very well near the end of their careers. I liked them and all of their supporting cast. I disliked a lot of the other stuff. I will admit that I am particularly critical of TV and movie plots that involve disrespect for a spouse that has not earned such behavior. I can be happy if the story involves a sufficient amount of karma, sorrow, regret, punishment, etc. for the cheaters. This one almost got there. Regardless of the title "Torn Between Two Lovers" this is a story of a cheating wife Diane Conte (Lee Remick) and a good and loving husband Ted Conte (Joseph Bologna.) The character of the new lover Paul Rasmussen (George Peppard) is called into question for me when he says "I usually don't pursue a married woman." To me, that is just like saying "I usually don't eat the heads off dead kittens." You really only have to do it once to earn my disdain. The title was just mostly a gimmick so they could use the popular song "Torn Between Two Lovers". They tried to make it into a "torn" issue somewhere after the middle of the movie, but it was mostly a lying, cheating and deception on her part till then. The fact that she still loved her husband was a bit unique to a movie love affair. Usually, the cheating partner convinces themselves otherwise.

It was a bit clever how the movie made the transition from her cheating to her having to "choose" rather than just keep lying. She and her husband were closely involved in the disintegration of another marriage in the family that involved a cheating husband. The woman at some point said to them that she just wished she had never known about the affair so she could still be with the man she loved. The husband of Lee Remick's character disagreed. His thought was honesty was paramount in marriage. Lee Remick got that amazing sad, pained, guilty look in her eyes that was on display several times during the course of this film. Lee Remick's character's decision to come clean with her husband was also driven by her lover who was now pushing her to leave her husband and be only with him.

When she did tell her husband, she seemed astonished that he would not stay with her to help her resolve her "song lyric" version of the reality of cheating. "Stay with me and help me figure this out" was her rather naive thought. If it were that simple why did she lie for so long? He left her as many men would. So there was currently still no issue of being "torn between two lovers" because he made the decision for her. At that point, her marriage was destroyed along with her young son who was listening. (How dare he get in the way of her finding herself...Sorry, I'm a child of divorce.) Que the blue eyes though! Oh, those eyes.

OK, I will admit it finally did come down to her being "Torn Between Two Lovers." When her husband showed up to attend an important public opening she had been working on, that action let her know or at least think that he was still interested in her. She finally had to decide. Each man had made it clear by words or actions they were not willing to share her. She had to pick between two men she claimed to love equally.

Warning! I want to describe the ending I dearly desired for this movie. To accomplish that I will spoil the ending that I got! You have been warned!

In the closing minutes, she tearfully breaks up with her lover Paul to seek reconciliation with her husband and family. She later approaches her husband Ted at his workplace to say she has done this and hopes she and he can be together. He says it will never be the same and he doesn't want to spend the rest of his life looking over his shoulder. As she is saying that he won't have to worry about that, he turns away and walks out the door. The soundtrack starts playing the part of the song that says "...I wouldn't blame him if he turned and walked away." She looks (with those eyes) as if she half expected to be rebuffed like this and sadly and slowly turns to walk away herself. ****Hit the pause button now and turn the TV off if you want my ending. This is the karma I wanted for the cheating wife. To be alone with no husband, no lover and no family.**** Unfortunately, he walks back through the door and calls to her. They agree to start again. I will admit that those few seconds of karma felt like the right ending. I wonder how much talk went on between the writers, director and producer about whether or not he would turn around and come back through those doors. I wonder if that piece of film was almost left on the cutting room floor.
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5/10
Ho Hum Based on a Song
stuart-wise9 February 2024
I suppose basing a movie on lyrics of popular song is not unique or even a bad idea. The song "Torn Between Two Lovers" is not clear whether the woman telling the story is married to either of them but in this movie, she is, and so it is a little misleading to refer to a husband simply as a lover since there is a lot more than just two people shacking up. A movie based on three unmarried people probably would be a bore, though to me it sounds like that what the song was about, and any man worth his salt would just get up leave this two-timer. Trouble in the movie is that Lee Remick's character doesn't come across as that evil type of person, just caught up in something. The weird thing is that she seemed to have better chemistry with her paramour than with her husband, and the movie doesn't really try to convince you otherwise.
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torn between 2 Lee Remick's
petershelleyau24 February 2002
Lee Remick is Diane Conti, married to Chicago accountant Ted (Joseph Bologna) but having an affair with architect Paul Rasmussen (George Peppard). Paul meets Diane after he rescues her lost print of Klimt's The Kiss in a snowbound New York airport. Their affair is romanticised by them dancing to a tap dancing record and kissing, with the patrician cool of Remick and Peppard juxtaposed against Bologna's ethnic emotionalism. Diane's procrastination is voiced by Paul's "If you're not going to leave him, why did you tell him?". Remick uses her blue eyes to convey her fear of moving either way. The teleplay by Doris Silverson, based on a story by Rita Lakin and Silverson, is suggested by the pop title song by Peter Yarrow and Philip Jarrell, here sung 3 times, though the writing is above the expected standard. It's a relief that Diane never actually says that she is "torn". The Conti marriage is paralleled with Ted's older brother who has divorced his wife to marry a younger woman, presumably on the wife's instigation, after she became aware of the affair. The treatment gets a few funny lines, with the younger woman's "My friends say he's a father figure but that's ridiculous because I never even knew my father", Ted to Paul "I don't know whether to kill you or congratulate you on your taste in women?", and Ted's mother to Diane "What will I be if I'm not your in-law? An outlaw?". Director Delbert Mann uses the music score by Ian Fraser in counterpoint to the song effectively the time it is sung in the film itself (the other times are in the credits) and Bologna steals in terms of performance, as a non-hysterical Italian.
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