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7/10
oh, goddamnit
denmn10 August 2004
I shouldn't respond to this movie. Its a mess, technically, structurally, intellectually... Its like a raw, unaudited page from the diary of a heartbroken man.

And, as poetic a sentiment as that may be, it makes for a strikingly self-indulgent, meandering vanity project. But it got to me. A man loves a woman. She loves him. But she realizes she can't be happy with him. So she leaves. And he, in her absence, creates an improbable interim for them to talk, to kiss, to make love one last time. Its heartfelt enough, and odd enough, an endeavor... 7 out of 10 from me...
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7/10
Marital philosophy marred by poor technical quality.
DukeEman6 February 2003
Jaglom's personal diary on marital relationships. Watch this with a partner and then compare notes. Be warned - this film could start up divorce procedures! But you'd be amazed how frank this technical messy and poorly edited film can be!
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One of my all-time favorites
erwinkath25 October 2004
This poignant look at three couples in various stages of life can touch even the most stoic of hearts. I was barely a teen when I first saw this film, and almost 20 years later, I find it still has insight. Within minutes you feel like these people are your life-long friends, over for a July 4th barbecue. Single, married or divorced, many of the themes will hit home. No glitz and glamour here, it's down to earth and gets you thinking and reflecting on your own life decisions. And best of all, it grows with you.

From David & Judy's reminiscing about the speech he made on their first date, to their quirky bearded philosophical neighbor, I alternated between smiles, laughs & tears by the end of it. Fans of L.A. Law will recognize Alan Rachins as a hapless husband, drowning in the mediocrity of his own life. A young Melissa Leo (Homicide:Life on the Street) plays sister to the main character's wife, Jaglom's real-life ex, Patrice Townsend. Even the soundtrack, from Astaire to Torme, lends a wonderful backdrop to the film. Henry's stream-of-consciousness style doesn't suit all tastes, but it's what I love most about his work. I'm more than happy to leave behind the super-quick cuts, special effects, plastic characters and overzealous editing of today's blockbusters to savor this delicious slice of life.
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2/10
Ugh!
disinterested_spectator30 November 2014
Warning: Spoilers
At the center of this movie is David, who will make your flesh crawl. He is whiny, icky, and creepy. He likes to wallow in his feelings, and worse than that, he wants to share. When the movie begins, David does not understand why his wife Judy left him and wants a divorce. We, on the other hand, do not know how she stood it as long as she did. But then, she is not much better than David, nor is anyone else in this movie, and so for almost two hours we suffer through watching a bunch of people who want to hug, feel, and communicate. By the time the movie is over, you will want to spend time around some real men, who don't even know what feelings are, let alone talk about them.

When the movie begins, David's wife Judy comes over to his house to sign the divorce papers. Right then, we know something is wrong with that setup. This is the sort of thing you do at your lawyer's office. In any event, David has decided that he will surprise Judy by fixing dinner for the two of them. At first we wonder why he didn't realize that she might have other plans, but we soon discover that he does not care if she does. When she finally relents and agrees to stay for dinner, she says she wants to call someone and let him know she won't be able to keep their date. But he doesn't want her to do that, because this is their special divorce dinner, and he doesn't want it spoiled by her making a phone call. Although this is incredibly selfish and immature, the movie does not want us to react to it that way. We are supposed to think it is warm and cuddly the way he wants to have their last dinner together be just so.

By the time the notary gets over to the house for the signing of the divorce papers, David and Judy are acting like two people who have just fallen in love and cannot get enough of each other, cuddling, kissing, and whispering sweet nothings. The notary tells them to think it over and leaves, figuring they really do not want to get divorced. After that, people start showing up at David's house for one reason or another, culminating in a barbecue on the Fourth of July, and we get to witness the many different ways people can be obnoxious, blathering pop-psychology and superficial philosophy.

The only good thing about this movie is that it is just a movie, because if you have ever had the misfortune to wind up around a bunch of people like that, you know that they want you to discuss your feelings too. And in this regard, they are relentless and will not be denied. But the only feeling you have is that of being violated.
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4/10
Unappealing lead characters
pollitomanilo27 May 2002
I had to fast forward through this movie more often than not. The lead characters were very unappealing and whiny. And I do mean whiny-- for example the lead character in so many words continually says throughout the movie, why why why do you want to leave me. Geez, get a life already. The support characters were much more interesting and for that reason earned this movie a 4.
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10/10
Sure to break your heart in all the right ways
elisereid-2966613 April 2021
Unlike most movies about divorce, Always is not about hostility. While the leading couple argue at times in the movie, there is no doubt that they have great affection for each other throughout. But why are they getting a divorce, then?, you may ask. The movie refuses to give details about their conflict until close to the end, and even then we're left in the dark. All we see are their personalities and their chemistry, and this allows us not only to interpret the story as we see fit, but also to imagine ourselves in their shoes. And this is one of the few movies about a breakup that I've seen that even dares to spend most of its running time trying to convince us that the protagonists should stay together, and yet also suggests that everything will be ok even if they do not in the end, because unlike most movies, resolution of the plot doesn't require them to reconcile in the way we expect because we're watching an American movie about a marriage. There is so much more to a happy life than being in love, and we owe it to ourselves to find other ways to make life worthwhile, as Jaglom's character conveys in his final speech, which totally devastated me with its honesty, heartfeltedness and truth.

This film is insightful and funny in a way that only Henry Jaglom can produce, because he is one of the few American filmmakers alive today not bound by scripts. Jaglom understands that it is in the editing room, not the writer's-or even director's-chair that a movie really either reaches its full potential or becomes a fall-on-its-face disaster. He isn't afraid to cut scenes together in a way that break the theatrical rules that most movies feel obligated to follow, when they can convey a point better when pieced together in a sequence that simultaneously makes more and less sense.

Upon my first viewing of a Jaglom film (his 1990 masterpiece Eating), my first thought was "this isn't a movie, this is a *symphony*." Because it wasn't concerned with a plot, it was concerned with character, color, personality and emotion. I felt this again this evening upon watching Always, but even more so because the film is so constructed that the climax of the story is cut together in such a way that you don't feel like you're watching the climax of a movie, you feel like you're listening to the climax of a great work of classical music. Of course, by saying this I feel like I'm trying to describe color to a blind person, and I realize this will make no sense to people that have never seen one of his movies, but if you do see them, and try to accept them on their level, you may understand what I'm talking about.

Always also serves as a bridge between the two main periods of Jaglom's career, between his stream of consciousness, groundbreaking, provocative and (at times) devastatingly funny films of the 1970s and early 80s like Tracks, Sitting Ducks and A Safe Place, and his more recent, pseudo-documentary efforts like Babyfever, Venice/Venice and Eating. Always is a good compromise between the two types of movies in that it has the fantastic editing and storytelling techniques of the former and the dialogue-driven insight of the latter. In fact, I almost wish I'd begun watching his oeuvre with this movie, not only because it serves as a cross section of Henry's career, but because Always's theme (relationships) is his most universal of all the themes he's tackled. Not everyone can relate to having an eating disorder or a ticking biological clock, but most people can relate to being in love, and I was so pleased that Henry's film on the subject did it such justice.
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10/10
Lovely
csm-828854 September 2018
You will appreciate this movie if you have ever had a loving healthy relationship, you will likely resent it if your experience doesn't reflect the respect and love shared on screen between spouses, family and friends. Henry Jaglom's character portrays a mentally fit and emotionally intelligent husband, which is rarely portrayed in film. I appreciate not having to wade through personality disorders or being being frustrated/anxious by watching people engage in toxic exchanges. This is a great movie for someone who doesn't seek need flawed characters on screen to make them feel better about themselves.
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