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(1988 TV Movie)

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6/10
Golden Girl goes solo!
moonspinner552 January 2003
Bea Arthur is wonderful (as always) playing a widow who becomes reacquainted with her high school squeeze; trouble is, he's got a relationship going with a young sexy thing, but may just dump the nubile girl for this older, more sensuous woman. One of the best lines has Arthur dressing herself up for a date in frilly clothes, looking in the mirror and dead-panning, "I look like Dolls From Around the World." She's a stitch, and works well with sturdy Richard Kiley as the old-flame. Arthur didn't get many opportunities to shine in feature films; on television, her exasperation and earthy, what-the-hell disposition feels very intimate and real. Too bad this hearty TV-movie hasn't been released on DVD, we could use more of Bea Arthur's dry-martini magic. A highly enjoyable show.
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6/10
Restrained Bea Arthur offering gives this film dimension.
Rainsford553 October 2002
Well worth a look for Bea Arthur fans, it's unlikely to win her any new ones. However I found Miss Arthur's overall performance to give the plot a depth that would have been lost otherwise. Filmed specifically for TV, it does come across as hurried and poorly developed and this is where it spoils. Also Joan Van Ark's "Claire" is little more than irritating.

Nicely dealing with a late-in-life love affair, the two main characters (Jean and Sam) rekindle their feelings with one another yet they both have obstacle's of their own to deal with first. Jean must put to rest her widowhood and Sam must set himself free from his fear of ageing and/or death. There are some comical moments that keep this alive and some of the supporting actors offer some interesting banter.

However it's saving grace is a rare appearance on film of Miss Bea Arthur, something to keep and cherish, offering us a subtle and restrained performance that gives this the depth that it needs. Miss Arthur is always going to be an American "First Love" and I recommend that this will keep you entertained.
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6/10
and then there's maude.
ksf-222 July 2021
Maude! Or Bea Arthur, at least. She never really got over losing her husband when he died, but Jean (Arthur) contacts Sam, an old boyfriend (Richard Kiley), and actually goes to visit him. That goes okay; they both have fun, but Jean returns home. When Sam shows up on her doorstep, they go out again. And fight. And make up. And fight some more. Will they ever iron things out? The script is pretty weak. Silly lines, jokes that don't really work. It means well... the basic story is solid, but the script needed juicing up. We even have Jean's angry, grown daughter, who is so rude to Sam for no reason. And of course the big mis-understanding. Can THAT over-done, hack scene at the hotel ever be smoothed over? If it weren't Bea, I would have bailed out. Co-stars Joan van Ark. I'll give it a just-okay. Directed by Gilbert Cates. He directed mostly tv movies. Looks like he produced many of the oscars, even won an emmy for it. Written by Ed Kaplan.
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Mature love story for mature viewers
jaykay-103 December 2003
A feelgood Valentine for the over-40 (50?) set, this romantic tale offers nothing that hasn't been done before, but is offered here with such a deft touch and with such command of nuance that it will win your heart - provided that you are in the proper age bracket. The emotions ring true, even if some of the plot is a bit contrived. Bea Arthur masterfully conveys the needs, fears, uncertainties and tentativeness of a widow just marking time until she decides that the best part of her life does not necessarily belong to the past. The overt sentimentality that might spoil such a story is carefully avoided here. A strong supporting cast contributes notably.
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8/10
Sexy Bea Arthur!
MyMovieTVRomance15 January 2022
I've always had a crush on Bea Arthur! Seeing her be romantic really turns me on. THAT VOICE really turns me on! Why wasn't she a lesbian?!

Good to see Knots Landing star Joan Van Ark (as the other woman) here looking so good. Anytime there's a Joan in anything I watch, that's a good sign to me!

This movie will make you nostalgic for the 1980s, whether you were there for it or not, AND you will want old TVs with wooden casing to make a comeback.

This movie shows that cozy, sexy, and sweet have no expiration date, and that age only adds depth to love, if anything. Recommended for fans of Bea, and for anyone who likes non-traditional romance, as well as fans of cozy 1980s films.
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8/10
Richard Kiley is adorable in this little known TV movie from 1988
BigWhiskers10 January 2011
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I know I saw this ABC TV movie when it originally aired in 1988 , but like with most movies of the week back in the 80's and 90's , you probably saw it once and forgot it- I don't think it was ever re-aired. I rediscovered it recently on YouTube and really enjoyed it. Richard Kiley and Bea Arthur star in this movie about two people who were lovers as young adults ,split up and then after not seeing each other for 35 years ,they meet again . Bea plays Jean a recently widowed NYC woman who is having trouble coping with being alone. Her gal pals talk about their 40th high school reunion coming up ,her old flames name comes up , she winces ,she obviously still hurts over him 35 yrs later. She goes to the reunion no doubt hoping he'll show but is disappointed when he does not. Her gal pal convinces her to write to him , and surprise he sends her plane tickets to visit him in the hamptons. After talking it over with her friend ,she decides to go much to her daughters dismay. This is where the movie takes off , starting with Richard Kiley . He has never looked more handsome , the man is charming , funny and I fell in love with him in this movie.

They end up spending a wonderful few days together and then he tells her he has been seeing a younger woman for some time ,they split but she called him the other night and he still loves her and wants to get back with her again. To add to Jeans heartache , he says that he should have married her in the first place.However,When he gets back with Claire the younger woman - he still thinks about Jean and pursues her back to New York - the movie gets even better at this point with Kiley and Arthur playing off each other like pro's. It all boils down to can Jean and Sam make it work or will he stay with Claire or will they both just go off alone. There are some really funny moments between the two ,and of course some painful heartache moments too.

I could have given this movie a 10 if it was based solely on the wonderful acting of the two veterans Kiley and Arthur. however overall it's not without it's drawbacks so I give it an 8. The story is a bit uneven and certain scenes are terribly underwritten and had me wondering did they really mean to have that scene end that way or did they rewrite it? 3 scenes really come to mind , a scene between Jean and her daughter after the daughter catches her making out with Sam, the scene ends so abruptly with her daughter making a very sarcastic remark while Jean does nothing when she should have slapped her daughter ,the scene at Claire's birthday party which takes place in the bathroom - it is all Claire and she really tears into Jean from telling her what could she possibly offer him to her being useless Jean says nothing to this and then she runs out to confront Sam without telling him what Claire said - putting him on the spot and then dumping him. I mean Claire was a control freak and selfish. She was constantly trying to control him and make him do what she wanted. Even the one lady friend at the party -told her that it was going nowhere. So how could Jean compare herself to Claire and think Sam would just dump her when she herself had issues as well. Terribly written IMO. And then of course the ending - which is way too short - it is more like a sitcom tag scene. With Sam chasing Jean back to NYC and begging her to marry him. Would have been better had there been some more fleshing out of their characters.

As with most TV movies -they are low budget ,quickly written and probably edited severely for pacing . Which leaves you thinking how much better it could have been if maybe it had backing to go to the big screen as maybe a limited release or indie movie. It also suffers from some bad acting by Joan Van Ark as Claire Sams' younger woman lover and also from the irritatingly bad acting of Kate Charleson - her character of Jean's daughter Barbara could easily have been cut out. Overall though definitely worth watching for the top notch acting of the late Mr Kiley and MS Arthur.
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9/10
Fantastic movie!!
Knotslanding199318 December 2013
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First, I read a review saying that Joan van Ark's acting was bad in this and I strongly disagree! She was fantastic with a wonderful comic touch playing the spoiled, immature Claire. She has a fantastic talent for comedy and used it to the fullest in this film. The movie is about Bea Arthur and Richard Kiley's characters who meet up again after being a couple when they were young. Richard's character Sam is dating a younger, sexy, immature women, Claire (Joan van ark). The movie is funny and sweet and everyone should see it simply just to see Joan van Ark in a sexy leopard bikini and other sexy skimpy clothing. The bedroom scene between her and Sam is also a highlight when she starts undressing. Her body is just perfection and she oozes sex appeal. Fabulous movie from start to finish! Great ending too and fantastic acting by Bea, Richard and Joan!!
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8/10
Thank you for being an Impossible Dream!
mark.waltz29 March 2022
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He's one of the few veteran actors who never made an appearance as one of Bea Arthur's boyfriends on "Golden Girls", but Richard Kiley of "Man of La Mancha" fame certainly is a dreamboat as her high school boyfriend home she contacts out of the blue when he doesn't show up for a class reunion. Much to her surprise, he contacts her and invites her out to Long Island to visit him, and the reunion is both comical and sweet as she has to deal with his younger ex-girlfriend, Joan Van Ark, determined to win him back, as well as her own insecurities. As she showed us with the roles of Maude and Dorothy, a seemingly confident woman doesn't necessarily need to be perfectly secure, and while it's often difficult to try to put the sitcom atmosphere out of your mind as well as her importance to that TV artform, Ms. Arthur is quite lovely here and certainly a great catch.

Imagine going to the DMV and finding out that your traffic law instructor is none other than Maude Findlay or Dorothy Zbornak or even Vera Charles, and for the young actor playing opposite her in one of the first scenes, it's a very funny interaction. She's also hysterically funny dealing with the little old lady who wants to drive, ending up in a very sticky situation on Manhattan streets. One of her friends is "Golden Girls" guest star Ann Francis, just as hysterically prickly as she was as Trudy. But it's the chemistry with Kiley that's the important thing, and these two silver foxes certainly have it. It's not easy to get through this without expecting a laugh track, but after a while, I forgot that I was watching one of my favorite sitcom stars and again to see her character. And once again, she was playing someone that I would really want to know in person.

One thing that the plotline hints at that is never wrapped up is Arthur's character's health situation, often questionable when she sees her doctor. Van Ark is hysterically funny as the vain, health-conscious femme fatale, never going over the top into parody. She certainly could have with her primetime soap roots, so even though her character causes a bit of trouble oh, she's not completely unlikable. This is a film that caused me to have a really big smile throughout, and I prayed for a happy ending. No matter what the writers of "Golden Girls" claimed about her looks just to get a cheap laugh, her character here is totally lovely and someone easy to root for to find happiness. It's ironic that what she gets here she would end up getting in the series final.
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