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8/10
Bravo! (spoilers)
vertigo_141 January 2005
This was a surprisingly good late romantic drama, although given the potential cast, I should've expected good things in the first place. It is a nice little love story, an inspiring one, I suppose, that comes from a story with sad circumstances.

Filmed in Pennsylvania is the story of Billy Wyatt (Mark Harmon), a washed up minor league ballplayer living in some rundown town out West. He gets a call from his mother that a close childhood friend (Kate Chandler played by Jodi Foster) of his committed suicide the previous week and left in her will that he was to be responsible for her cremated remains. Wyatt is understandably reluctant to fulfill the obligation in part because he can't understand why he was the one she left her remains to, and he doesn't want to deal with the loss of a friend. So, the story is told in flashback as Wyatt travels home to deal with the situation and the loss of the slightly flaky, but daring girl he was once in love with.

William MacNamara (hubba! hubba!) is great as young Billy Wyatt, although everyone does a fine job. Jonathan Silverman, as teen Wyatt's best friend Appleby, plays his typical eager virgin role common to many of his mid/late 80s material, and adds a nice comic touch (and Harold Ramis continues the charm as the older Appleby). If you enjoy this cast, you should likely be pleased with the film. It's quite a wonderful, underrated drama, and was one of the few movies that I have rented recently and watched more than once.
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7/10
Jodie Jodie Jodie
caspian19786 January 2004
Unlike what most people think, Stealing Home is not a remake or a retelling of the Summer of 42. It is in fact, something better and just as universal. A coming of age drama, besides moments of sexual matter, is a decent movie for any mature (13+) audience. In my opinion, Silverman's character takes away from the main story between Jodie Foster and Thacher Goodwin. For mere comic relief, Silverman could have had more of if not equal amount of character development. Instead, he pops in and out of the main characters life to tell a joke or two. All in all, a good movie. An like always, Jodie Foster is the forever princess of innocence
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7/10
Watch it when you're middle-aged.
dave13-16 January 2012
Athletes often face a rough mid-life period as their skills diminish and their careers wind down, since their sport so defines who and what they are. This topic has great potential for drama and poignancy, yet few good films have been made on the subject. This movie has a beautifully sad central love story, with aging minor league ballplayer Billy Wyatt (Mark Harmon) remembering the (then) older woman who inspired him so many years before (Jodie Foster), and trying to come to terms with the route his career and life have taken. So, he returns to his hometown, connects with his high school best friend (Harold Ramis) and starts looking into his past for answers, while much of the film plays out in flashback, recounting his bittersweet teen years, when everything was ahead of him but his own goals and motivations were elusive. What makes the film watchable is the complexity of the central relationship, as the mature Billy realizes that the most important woman in his life arrived when he was too young to appreciate her.

The movie is quite beautiful to look at with its clean-scrubbed view of small town life and high school sports, and the characters are engaging to follow. This is not a great movie by any means. Like Billy Wyatt himself, this one just misses hitting the major leagues, but it IS enjoyable in a low key way, and the lack of interesting movies on this potentially interesting subject makes it a bit special.
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thanks for the memories
bligh_8161119 June 2000
Stealing Home is one of the most underrated films of recent memmory. The inherent simplicity, interesting story lines and compelling character strengths convey a sense of nostalgia while at the same time testify to a strong line of family. The proponents of the critical acclaim of this film will assert that the flashbacks are convoluted, the character development flawed and the ending cliched and predictable. However, this is a film that succeeds on all levels. Mark Harmon plays a present day (1987) ballplayer whose professional career has been characterized by a series of failures and challenges, allegedly fueled by the suicide of a babysitter and family friend, Katie Chandler. (Jodie Foster) Foster's character is capricious and carefree in her approach to her own life and encouraging to Harmon's character, Billy Wyatt. The young Wyatt emerges as a unique talent with a flair for the game which is only precipitated as he ages. The unforeseen circumstance with his father (John Shea) and the complication with his AAA-ball experience fuel his dismay and disgust with his passion. Billy remarks throughout the film that "Katie was the one who reminded him that he was a ballplayer" and this holds true until the very end when he is reunited with his true love and passion. The imagery in the frequent flashbacks is very satisfying and the story line from start to finish is convincing. Harmon, Foster and Shea are a strong ensemble and the film overall is bittersweet, nostalgic and above all, heartwarming.
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7/10
Ashes to the sea
jotix10011 July 2005
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"Stealing Home" is a film that will resonate with a section of the movie viewing public because it presents a story which will be easily loved. Directors Steven Kampmann and William Porter, who also wrote the screen play, show they can evoke the era in which the picture takes place. Both of these gentlemen know a thing or two about how to project the right atmosphere through the use of the popular music of the time.

Although no date is given, it's clearly the early sixties when Billy and his best friend, Alan, come of age. It's the summer and they are spending it, like always, at the beach where their wealthy families seem to keep a home. There are three periods in which the film is set, once when Billy is about ten, then as a teen ager, and then as a young man in his twenties.

Throughout the film, we watch the love between Katie, the friend of the Brown family, as she babysits the young Billy. Then, as a teen ager, Billy's love for Katie is made clear and it's returned by her. Katie is six years older, it's a love that consumes them during one summer after Billy's father is killed in a car accident. The last part of the film shows us Billy returning home as he has been called because Katie has named him to be the disposer of her ashes after she commits suicide.

It's a beautiful love story, and it's easy to see why viewers love it. The best thing in the film are William McNamara, as the teen age Billy and Jodie Foster, who is Katie, the eternally beautiful Katie, who for some reason of movie magic, never seems to age. The supporting cast is excellent, John Shea, Blair Brown, Harold Ramis, among them.

This is a good summer movie to watch. It's sunniness will warm any viewer looking for a good romantic way to spend some time.
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6/10
A good coming-of -age story.
ShempMyMcMalley26 June 2008
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***/***** I remember watching this movie circa 1990 when I was about 12. Back then I thought this movie was great, so I rented it to see how my frame-of-reference would match up. However, I didn't like it near as much, but it is still a pretty decent movie for what it is. The "tell you how to feel" score is way too much, and if ever a film had too much sentimentality to it, this is that film. Nonetheless, there is something to be said of some of the themes and the way the coming-of-age story is executed. Mark Harmon stars as Billy Wyatt, a washed-up minor league baseball player who receives news that his childhood babysitter and friend Katie, has committed suicide. What follows is his journey home, complete with reflections on his past and his duty of respectively laying her ashes to rest. A lot of the story is in flashbacks, and we see how Billy has come to be--and what his relationship was like with Katie and others. One thing that bothered me, though, is that we were shown this background and story on Foster's character Katie, but we're never told why she killed herself? Overall, a mediocre 100 minutes of entertainment.
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10/10
this is actually my favorite movie.
mlkofkim14 August 2000
I have never seen a more touching tale of a boy becoming a man, and it spans 2 decades to get from start to finish.

The full spectrum of actions dealt with are amazing, the loss of a father, the loss of a dream, the loss of a true love, the separation from all that was "holy" to this young man and his attempts to reclaim his life after years of avoiding everything real.

All this told with a backdrop that is flawless and accurate. (it takes place in Philadelphia, my hometown)

Truly a touching movie, and my favorite drama.
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7/10
Back to the sweet past
luisguillermoc318 March 2010
On behalf of youth, there have been some of the worst scarecrows of film history, but also, from time to time (¿why is always good once in a while?) Is a story that blanket the soul and brings us back the romance, sometimes we lost forever.

And it's so beautiful dream with open eyes! And so great was that first love that made us believe that in this world was perfect! There is, perhaps, other moments that are remembered with more gratitude, as experienced with tenderness and passion in our adolescence.

"Stealing Home" is one of those movies. The story is about a boy (Billy Wyatt) baseball player, in crisis after the death of his father who one day finds out that Kathy Chandler, his sweet first love, killed himself and hopes that he is the man take charge of her ashes.

Then the memories begin. With each haunting space, the past returns unstoppable, and Billy is remembered as a ten year old boy fascinated by the beautiful Kathy sixteen. Travel by car, the first installment, the horse diver, swimming pool... The enormity of the simple, tenderness and charm of every gesture, every touch, every word. The forever stamp each encounter... and death that is interwoven to tell her it was all an illusion and that nothing is to touch it again.

Kathy was a young girl who wanted to own your life every minute, every second. He wanted to chart a path of freedom in a world where constraints arising everywhere. But you can say I tried to exhaust his strength... to vanish in a haze of memory.

Jodie Foster gives an adult character,charming and credible. In full bloom of adolescence, showing mature, sensitive, beautiful, and lets us feel that great actress who has always been throughout his career.

Beautiful songs and a nice atmosphere reminiscent of famous titles as "Summer of 42" or "The Man in the Moon", make this an enjoyable film worth seeing and remembering.
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10/10
A movie to watch over and over!
krkemp18 May 2001
This is one of my favorite movies and I own a copy of it. Everything about it is wonderful. I love the beautiful soundtrack which complements the beautiful ocean front backdrop and the nostalgic, emotional and romantic feeling of the movie. The theme song "When She Danced" is one of my favorite songs of all time and I don't think it's cheesy. The movie just captures so many feelings perfectly. You just want to be there living the experiences of these characters at this wonderful, albeit sad, time in there lives. I can't seem to put into words how I feel about this movie and that's mostly because that's what this movie is, something that you can't really touch. It just writes like a bittersweet poem. I make it sound so cheesy but you can't help it with this movie, it's just so deeply moving. But it's not cheesy, it's very real with very real characters. I give it a 10.

p.s. It's not just a chick flick. There's enough baseball dreams and adolescent fantasies to keep any guy happy.
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7/10
Pretty good, I gave it a 7
Jakeroo18 September 1998
I normally don't care much for Mark Harmon but he does well in this. William McNamara was very good as was Jodie Foster. It was almost a "whodunit" trying to figure out what Billy would do with Katy's ashes. Nice, nostalgic look at life with a happy ending.
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3/10
Very slight, but with one good performance
moonspinner5514 July 2007
Burnt-out baseball player Mark Harmon, upon hearing of the suicide of a childhood friend, hearkens back to his younger days, eventually returning home to put peace to the past. As Harmon's boyhood muse, Jodie Foster is a bit like Auntie Mame at 20, raffish and exciting--but what happens to her character is a writer's pretense and it just doesn't wash (it fails to jibe with the blossomed young woman we've been watching). This light drama, a labor of love for writer-directors Steven Kampmann and William Porter, is awfully slight, relying heavily on comedic asides and nostalgia to round it off (even erring on that score, as the nostalgia seems distinctly falsified). However, Foster has a handful of scenes that touch on something deeper than woozy sentiment and reminiscences; she finds the heart of this piece and manages to give the picture some depth. *1/2 from ****
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10/10
A Classic Drama
marcuskent24 May 2003
Wonderful performances by an all-star cast led by Mark Harmon and Jodie Foster make "Stealing Home" a classic drama. John Shea is also remarkable and shows what he can do with a good part. Making the film even more enjoyable is the great score by David Foster which captures perfectly the mood of the film and for once, songs actually blend in and help set the mood and time of the piece.

A must-see.
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7/10
A little life story movie
megoobee7 May 2007
The first time I saw this movie over 10 years ago, I thought the movie made no sense and boring. The problem was, I didn't try to understand the movie. Fast forward to the present, I watched the movie again and now understand the story. Life, love, exploration, death, it's all in the story. A boy's life shown from the perspective of a man. While the flashback scenes may seem long to some, they tell most important parts of the story. In my opinion, if the story was shot straight-forward (ie: from beginning to end) instead of using present/cut to flashback, the story would not be as effective. It won't win any awards but it's entertaining nonetheless.
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4/10
Didn't do it for me.
triple821 August 2003
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I am a big Jodie Foster fan and went to see Stealing Home mainly because she was in it. I thought Jodie Foster was great actually,but the movie itself didn't do it for me.

I found it very different then the previews made it out to be and at times it was plodding, as well as being very confusing as well at certain points.(I Really didn't like the flashback theme, that works in certain movies but I didn't think it worked here.) It was also rather dull, at times though, maybe it's because I'm not a major baseball fan either so I wasn't that into that part of it.

I can appreciate the premise of the movie, however, and this is one I know some disagree with me on. The best thing about the movie was Foster. As usual she gives us another unforgettable performance in another unforgettable role. I might watch it again if it was on, just for her performance. Her character was fresh and fiercely wonderful- I wish she'd been in every scene, maybe I would have stayed focused on the movie more if she had been. In fact all the performers were great and I think this movie really did have a certain sweetness to it but I just wish certain things had been done differently and maybe a bit less on the flashback sequences. The previews were also very misleading making it look different then what it actually was. Even though, I can appreciate it's appeal, I didn't enjoy it as much as I had hoped.
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Stole my heart...
Lil__P14 January 2004
This is one of my all time favorite movies. I'm amazed how so few people have heard of it. It's certainly a hidden treasure and I encourage people to give it a good look. It's very romantic, tragic and funny all at once. I particularly love Katy's character (played by Jody Foster). She is every girl and woman rolled into one...
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7/10
Two films in one.
vonnoosh21 February 2023
This movie is at one time a coming of age drama and a story for those who go through a mid life crisis. It is not about a washed up ball player dealing with the end of one life and adjusting to another. This isn't Bull Durham in any way. Mark Hamon plays a guy who quit baseball before his prime and basically drifts for 14 years until he learns someone very important to him took her own life back where he grew up.

Half the story is flashbacks to memories of Katie played excellently by Jodie Foster and half is the story of Wyatt grown up (played equally well by Mark Harmon) figuring out what to do about Katie's ashes because she left the responsibility up to him in her will which in itself is a mystery since neither of them saw each other in nearly 15 years.

Stealing Home likely didn't appear in many theaters. It's not really for the 14 to 24 crowd. It did get alot of showings on cable when I was a kid. I vaguely related to having a Katie in my life, still do, but mostly I didn't understand or appreciate the story. Now I am middle aged and experienced the directionlessness after being defeated by some of life's challenges. I understand it better now and like it more.

Also I live about a 10 minute bike ride from where many of the flashback scenes were filmed. It also features a scene shot in the Vet. Sure it ended up being a rathole but it is gone but not forgotten and still fondly remembered.

Harold Ramis, Jonathan Silverman and Blair Brown are also all excellent in the movie. Well acted with some light comedy (second city alumni wrote and directed it) but nothing too major.
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10/10
Be My Friend!
mcgee446817 March 2000
Kampmann's decision to tell "Stealing Home's" story via flashbacks is a tricky one to pull off but this film does it beautifully. The emotional rollercoaster that pulls us in is done without the director pandering to the obvious. Mark Harmon's performance as the disaffected, angst-ridden adult that young dreamer Billy Wyatt has become is unusually well-done, as are Jonathan Silverman and Harold Ramis' lovable versions of Appleby. "BE MY FRIEND!" Ah, memories.
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10/10
Best Drama Ever !
Retrotech1915 February 2003
Tjoho !

Stealing Home was the first real Drama I ever watched in my life.

Still after 14 years it's my favorite movie and I'm still cry out when I watch the movie.

It's a really sensitive movie that'll touch you deep inside with it's warm and gently touch of love and sad pain.

I give it 10/10, one of a kind stand alone movie !
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5/10
coming-of-age in a haze of nostalgia
SnoopyStyle31 December 2019
Billy Wyatt (Mark Harmon) is a washed up baseball player after reaching the minor leagues. His life is aimless and then he gets a call from his mother. Katie Chandler is dead and she left him her ashes. In flashbacks, Billy is a young boy and Katie (Jodie Foster) is his outgoing babysitter while their parents are away. As a teenager, he is set to follow his baseball dream. After his father dies, Katie becomes a source of comfort.

This is mostly about an idealized coming-of-age story from the past. It goes at a leisurely pace. Despite being headliners, Harmon and Foster do not share any screen time. One is in the present day and the other one is in the past. The movie is aching to have more time with Foster. She presents hints of connections which the movie is desperate for. A better film would be mostly Billy spending the summer with Katie after his father's death. Instead, everything has a haze of nostalgia. This movie is a lazy summer day on a deserted beach outside your large beach house.
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8/10
Love life like their is no tomorrow
umichjal4 December 2021
In the beginning of the movie, you understand about 'stealing home'. But, not in the sense you think. Through flashbacks, you travel the adolescent to adulthood path. You learn about Love. Friendship. Pain. You learn that ... life gives us curve balls when we least expect it, or want it. Stealing Home let's see life through the eyes of a coming of age teen. A boy who became a man while struggling with hardship.

The curve balls will come at you. But, it's how you handle them that counts.
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5/10
Summer of '42 revisited....and not done any better
helpless_dancer3 March 2000
When a middle aged man receives word that an old friend has died, he begins remembering his youth in a series of flashbacks. When not involved with his remembrances he is trying to figure out how to dispose of the friend's ashes as per her wishes stated in her will. This must have been a ladies movie; I found it totally droll, tepid, dull, and ridiculously unbelievable in many parts. This film is proof positive that one can't really be killed by boredom.
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Wonderful Sleeper
donnellymj27 January 2004
More movies should be pure enjoyment. They don't have to be great to be enjoyable and this movie with it's nostalgia and adolescent discovery of the wonder of girls is a fun movie. The best part of the movie is the steady friendship between Appleby and Billy Boy. It begins with them and ends with them having matured and yet having not lost their youth. Don't watch this movie as a critique. Watch it as if you are enjoying the popcorn.
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10/10
Stealing Home is wonderful and a charming tear-jerker.
Lindsay4243 February 2002
I loved the movie because Jodie Foster did an excellent job. It is a tear-jerker but I loved it and I recommend It to anyone. Billys' flashbacks bring you to the 1960's when he was 16 and played ball, lost his virginity, sook out advice from Katie, and when his father died. Anyone who likes old movies and loves Jodie Foster will enjoy this movie, being the great movie that it is. I know you will love it and watch it over and over.
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10/10
Emotional Roller Coaster
Merleman6 January 2000
I think that this movie was well done all around. Mark Harmon does a good job at bringing the viewer through his emotions as he experiences flashbacks. By the end of the movie, I felt as connected to Katie (played wonderfully by Jodie Foster) as he did. It is a bit sappy at the end, but overall I thought this was an excellent movie. I did enjoy Harold Ramis as Appleby, he was wonderful to watch as well. Great Movie, Great Job!
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5/10
All the ingredients except flour doesn't make the cake rise.
mark.waltz23 April 2021
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There are a lot of ingredients here, but probably too many as far as characters are concerned and too much time crossing back and forth to make this anything more than an adequate drama of nostalgia and regret and grief. All of the characters are likable, and certainly, Jodie Foster, then at her height, is a major draw. It starts with the element of sadness, then now grown up Mark Harmon finding out that old friend Foster has committed suicide, so he goes back home and we find out a little bit about his past and her life as a young adult and his friendship with Jonathan Silverman who has grown with up to be Harold Ramis.

The songs utilized in the narrative indicate that this was sometime in the 60's, and at the time, the young Silverman and William McNamara (who grows up to be Harmon) were late teens. Foster, in her early twenties, is flattered by McNamara's crush on her, and discourages it simply by becoming his buddy. She's a great girl for certain, attentive and caring and wise and nurturing, but of course one thing leads to another and years later, when he's confronted with the tragedy, he remembers her more than just fondly.

What do you do as a non relative who is given the urn of a suicidal girl's ashes? That becomes the major focus of the present day story, and there's not really enough to indicate why Foster's grown up character would take this way out. Blair Brown plays the lovely lady whom Harmon ends up with, and while she has some great moments, it's an underdeveloped role.

There is a lot to like in this, particularly the narrative which is sweet and innocent and villain free, a slice of Life that certainly will leave the viewer reflective of their teen years. There's also a pretty background score, combination piano and saxophone (typical of late '80s films), and the Pennsylvania country scenery is also gorgeous. The film though has little to do with baseball even though Harmon's character is a professional baseball player, just another detail that makes this seem like several stories being bunched into one, impossible to dislike, yet somehow not satisfying as everything starts to be wrapped up.
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