I think the pirate family is sick. They should be turned into CPS for the hoarding behavior as well as the dirtiness, cussing, and fleas. This is not acceptable behavior for any family group and anyone who agrees with this has some issues. I have worked with behavioral children and this is the first step of issues you see with rebellious and troublesome children. The mom and dad have issues and they need to be addressed as well.
And for the pirate mom to yell at the other mom because she has a clean and orderly home, makes you wonder what our society is coming to. This is most assuredly a very normal versus a very disturbing family system that your program has shown.