Dear Mr & Mrs Cubbison, Are you real? I am appalled at what you are teaching your children (or rather not teaching). Encouraging your child to urinate outside by the street, in the bushes, in the shower!! Never once did I hear you offer him the toilet to go to the bathroom. That little demon you have that feels it is his job to discipline his 3 year old is also appalling. Do you ever discipline your children. I bet not because you never put the baby down. What are you going to carry her for the rest of her life. Building self sufficient human beings is needed in this day and age. Your teaching your children to be needy, depressed, "I wants" that will suffer when they are older because you are too lazy to do what is required of you. Get ready because in a few short years the pay back will come. People that demand instant gratification to their every whim end up drug addled adults that are penitentiary bound. Please for the sake of your marriage and your children, do the right thing. I have never spoken out in this manner before but I could not help myself. Forgive me if I am out of line, but you evidently have the money, now spend the time to teach them, or get a full time nanny to do it for you!!