The Story of My Wife (2021) Poster

User Reviews

Review this title
15 Reviews
Sort by:
Filter by Rating:
7/10
What's love got to do with it?
kosmasp7 June 2022
Very fine actors we have here, to a story that you have to ... well get into. The premise is "easy" or at least seems that way. Especially considering how fast everything seems to move at first. But when you skip steps - well in the end the step you skipped may come back to haunt you.

Or in this case the main characters. Love can not be conjured up - it can be built over years sometimes, And it may be something that is going to happen here too. But it wouldn't be a good movie, if everything went smoothly and without any obstacles ... still the movie is almost 3 hours long and the pace slows down quite significantly.

So I do understand if some people have issues because of the length (no pun intended) ... yes (minute) size does matter. Keeping things fresh too - it does try that out and we have quite a few situations. Some that we may have to figure out ourselves. Can you dig it?
4 out of 8 found this helpful. Was this review helpful? Sign in to vote.
Permalink
7/10
... a totally European film... could-would have been much better
bjarias29 March 2022
... would really have been interesting to watch this film as it should have been made in foreign language(s)... watching it now is like viewing a production having been perfectly dubbed, something is missing-lacking... actors making movies in second or third languages will do nothing but take away from a film's experience... sure there's a bit of adjustment having to read subtitles... yet the 'feel' of the movie makes it all-more-worthwhile

... interesting premise.. he's obliviously being unfaithful all the while upset, fully believing she's not being honest with him regarding her fidelity... any-all women of the day could never have close male friends, especially married-women... viewer ratings for this film would overall surely have gone up were it not for the fact of it being 169 minutes long.
5 out of 12 found this helpful. Was this review helpful? Sign in to vote.
Permalink
4/10
The Story of My Wife is the story of one sided no ended illusions...
sukrancetik57 May 2022
Warning: Spoilers
The Story of My Wife is the story of a man discovering his wife after he's already married her. And most of the film about how Jacob becomes suspicious of her infidelity.

Although the film has a great 1920s setting becames very boring in such a short time because of the lack of character development for her so it fails to hold the attention almost 3 hours. Also the end is another mistery which needs at least another hour for explaning. Because you get so confuse about what have you watched all those hours :))
7 out of 15 found this helpful. Was this review helpful? Sign in to vote.
Permalink
8/10
Great acting, fabulous cinematography in a literary story brought to the screen romanticizing the sea and showcasing the breakdown of a toxic marriage.
cgvsluis3 August 2022
This film was a pleasant surprise for me...I hadn't read the book (original source material is a book with the same title by Hungarian author Milan Fust) and I didn't know anything about the film when I watched it. Since, I have read numerous reviews and critiques of the book...and the film which was premiered at the 2021 Cannes Film festival.

The general story is about a Dutch sea captain Jakob Stor in the 1920's/1930's who, encouraged by his on-board chef, marries a young bohemian woman who he doesn't really know. The two have an odd relationship filled with seeming contempt and indifference by Lizzy the wife and patience, curiosity, and eventual jealousy by Jakob. The film is predominantly in English with some Dutch in parts...like the beginning. I was very appreciative of the Dutch language being used and Jakob being played by the Dutch actor Gijs Naber. Gijs Naber was not just the anchor holding this film together...but the best part. He was phenomenal and did a wonderful job selling a tortured and sympathetic character. One of my favorite scenes is the build up to him throwing vases etc around their flat. (He lasted longer than I would have before he snapped.) I also particularly enjoyed the sultry Tango scene, but a large part of my enjoyment of this film was the cinematography. I love some of the still moments that were just a view out of a port window...or the view of the horizon. Sea life is definitely romanticized in the film...even the camaraderie of the young crew seems idolized along with the more revered but isolated life of the captain. I understand this was a joint effort between Hungary, Germany and France and I loved it. I hope we have more joint efforts bringing literature to life. The sets and costumes were wonderful and really showcased both the time period and the fictional characters.

Not only did I love the film and highly recommend it, but I am eager to read the original book which I have had to order as my local bookstore did not have a copy. If the reviews are to be believed to book delves even more into philosophy than the film.

To define this film in the simplest of terms this is about a toxic relationship or the breakdown of a marriage between a Dutch sea captain and a young free spirited girl.
15 out of 15 found this helpful. Was this review helpful? Sign in to vote.
Permalink
3/10
Unnecessarily Long
rizaozal-622-567017 April 2022
I believe this was Lea seydoux worst movie. It was unnecessarily long and meaningless. Even "Belle Epine" was much better than this. I believe it was actually not the right role for Lea. It could be anyone else.
10 out of 31 found this helpful. Was this review helpful? Sign in to vote.
Permalink
10/10
Superb
zaethermind29 May 2022
A movie about how movies should be done, wonderful piece of cinematography and art. No, I havent read the novel and I dont need to. Every man who really loved a woman beyond and above everything would perfectly understand this movie. The rest, just go watch superheroes flicks and dont judge.
26 out of 34 found this helpful. Was this review helpful? Sign in to vote.
Permalink
1/10
Misrepresentational
ballouvince11 March 2022
Lea Seydoux is always great and a remarkable performer in the best and worst movies, so she has nothing to do with this trash of a movie. It's not romance. It's debauchery. It's lustful, creepy, misogynistic and totally misrepresentational of planet earth. It takes a really long time to get through the 3 hours. Romances don't start out like that. Not in the real world. The guy is a creep.
9 out of 55 found this helpful. Was this review helpful? Sign in to vote.
Permalink
10/10
A unusual master piece!
janwillembos4 September 2022
After some of the bad reviews my expectations were low and I was surprised how did this movie struck me hard.

Maybe because the captain expresses so deeply what I felt in relationships. Not that I ever would propose to the first woman that would enter a door but the experience sometimes you get more than you bargained for and how you can't control how destructive love can be. To watch how the captain was struggling to articulate what he was feeling was intriguing.

The sadness and frustration of him never even getting close in the mind of his wife. Was she playing with hm and paying him back as a punishment for his bold proposal or did she deeply love him as much as he loved her? Did she get more than she bargained for as well by thinking she could play him? Will men ever understand women?

It's not a Hollywood movie with clever lines of communication and it's drawn out yes. But for me the atmosphere with the continuous tension kept me on my seat for the full 3 hours. Bach's largo from his 5th clavier concerto on the background exemplified the sadness and the longing. The cinematography was so beautiful.

The acting was stellar and a joy to watch. Other reviewers seem to have criticized the acting but they meant to criticize the characters with their clear flaws. Did they mix this up.

Just as the captain, I struggle to describe this movie and I can't explain why I was so drawn to it. I'm grateful Enyedi's courage bringing this out in the way she did. At least some people find this a master piece!
11 out of 13 found this helpful. Was this review helpful? Sign in to vote.
Permalink
9/10
One of the best movies I have seen in 50 years
carlos-pires29 October 2022
Great story, great acting, amazing cinematography and production design, for a wonderful and unique script that pulls on the heartstrings of everyone who has known love, strife and loss, and who is able to notice a great piece of art when they see it.

This is an amazing tale, one that might be criticised for being too far-fetched, but nevertheless is very close to the real lives of many people. Granted: this is not for everyone. Not everyone will appreciate the trials and tribulations of this captain, or the tribulations and restlessness of the young, wild, curious and intelligent wife... but I assure you all that this is what art is made of: past experience combined with grief and imagination, congealed in a (art) piece with the aid of top craftsmanship from all the participants in the production of this move.

An amazing cast, delivering an amazing performance, enhanced by top-notch work from all other parties involved. This is now one of my favorite movies of all time.

Special credit has to be handed to Lèa Seydoux, who is absolutely brilliant in her flawless performance.

She is not only a ravishing beauty: she has always proved to be an amazing actress, even in the most barren roles in the most mind-numbing action movies (e.g., 007) and in this one she shows the ability to delivery a performance that is finely-grained with all the nuance of this very complex character.
10 out of 13 found this helpful. Was this review helpful? Sign in to vote.
Permalink
8/10
The grass is green where you pour water
joeysaurus31 July 2022
A loyal captain wonders if he made the right decision.

It's a story about the impermanence of relationships, temptation and betrayal, being punished for taking things for granted, depression, living in the present. Both actors were well cast.
8 out of 10 found this helpful. Was this review helpful? Sign in to vote.
Permalink
10/10
Critics are wrong about this film.
rsaraiva-299394 December 2021
This film got is premiere at last Cannes with not very warm reviews from the critics and public alike, many of the critics calling euro-pudding. I suspect many of these critics didn´t read the original novel of Milan Fust that these film is based on and that Ildikó Enyedi was tryng to do for many years.

I thought the film was very well adapted containing many of the philisophical and symbolism of the novel, beautifully shot, excellent perfomances by all (Gijs Naber and Léa Seydoux (her part is probably more difficult to play since she´s mostly an enigma until the very end of the film) are perfectly cast and very well directed.

One advise I who give who wants to see this film, is to read the novel first.
27 out of 43 found this helpful. Was this review helpful? Sign in to vote.
Permalink
10/10
A beautiful film about love, jealousy and philosophy
tothgergo3125-972-58673626 September 2021
The main charachter, Captain Störk is an unique figure. He is such a loveable charachter. Between him and Lizzy has a really strong chemistry!

The movie is like a time machine, all those sets and locations are beautiful!

My favorite part was the small talks between Störk and other charachters, like the doctor. It really gives a philosophical layer of the story!

Overall: the best film of 2021 for me.
25 out of 47 found this helpful. Was this review helpful? Sign in to vote.
Permalink
8/10
Worth seeing it
bellucci20085 April 2022
This movie is not for everyone, but for those who can see poetry in images. Only Lea herself is already enough to see it, such a mysterious woman, on which most of people can't understand. The actor who plays the captain is good enough to lead the movie all by himself in 3 hours.

The photography, cities and the period completes the perfect environment.
8 out of 13 found this helpful. Was this review helpful? Sign in to vote.
Permalink
10/10
Love from the male perspective
allcelebritiesarebald7 September 2023
Most romance movies are told from the female perspective, often warped to soothe the psyche and present a fantasy completely devoid of truth. This one is told from a man hopelessly in love. Perhaps he is a fool, perhaps he has his issues nevertheless the love is real, the story is believable, it is the fate of many.

It's a period piece moving very slowly, a very touching melancholic movie. Younger generation will not enjoy it, unless you can enjoy being alone by a river watching the birds, clouds or a sunset don't bother with this movie.

Great everything, acting, cinematography, direction, costumes, one of those rare movies you happen to come across and don't forget a week later.

Recommended to older men with experience.
3 out of 4 found this helpful. Was this review helpful? Sign in to vote.
Permalink
8/10
Anytime I stop...
Yruk_II9 April 2022
Why do characters need to smoke so much? I get sick of it. These are the details that take away the pleasure of seeing something.

I liked it a lot, despite being so long. I thought the main actor was excellent, I didn't know him.
6 out of 20 found this helpful. Was this review helpful? Sign in to vote.
Permalink

See also

Awards | FAQ | User Ratings | External Reviews | Metacritic Reviews


Recently Viewed