- Abby: Jack... He's gonna look at me and see this broken person. If I tell him this, it's all he'll ever see.
- Dr. Jo Karev: Abby, look at me. This doesn't define you. And whether you tell your husband or you report it or you don't tell another soul, you're a survivor. You survived. I still feel nauseous when I see men in expensive shoes with the points of the toes because that's how my ex-husband made my kidney bleed. For years, I thought I got what I deserved, that I was responsible, that maybe, just maybe, if I had said or done one thing differently...
- Abby: But none of that was your fault.
- Dr. Jo Karev: No.
- Abby: It's not your fault. Do you have a phone I can use?
- Dr. Jo Karev: Yes. Will you stay?
- Abby: As long as you need.
- Dr. Ben Warren: [to Tuck] Any game we watch on TV, right? They run, toss, wrestle, chase, until someone gets hurt. Or until someone calls time out. Then the game stops. And no matter how much fun they're having, everything stops. That's consent.
- Tuck: I thought we were just having burgers.
- Dr. Ben Warren: Yeah, well, I thought talking was just talking, but you and I both know that's not the same thing anymore, so you pay attention to the girl you're with, all right? You need to care about her feelings, her joy, at least as much as you care about your own.
- Tuck: Okay, okay.
- Dr. Ben Warren: And she gets to change her mind. At any time. I mean, if she says "stop," or if she stops having fun, you just plain stop. Time out. Game over.
- Tuck: I know.
- Dr. Ben Warren: Being with someone you like is... there's nothing like it, and I want you to be safe and happy, but that only happens if she is, too.
- Tuck: Okay.
- Dr. Ben Warren: Say it. Say it.
- Tuck: If she stops having fun, just plain stop. Time out. Game over.
- Dr. Ben Warren: Always.
- Abby: I keep going over it in my head. If I hadn't been so distracted by my phone. If I had just trusted my gut and not gone down that street with the broken lamplights...
- Dr. Teddy Altman: Abby, this was not your fault. You didn't ask for this. There is nothing you did to deserve this.
- Dr. Jo Karev: Abby, if we take you to the OR, we have to make you sterile, so everything that happened to you, all the evidence, it all goes away. You can still report it.
- Abby: I'm not reporting anything. There's nothing to report.
- Dr. Teddy Altman: That is your choice. It is all your choice.
- Dr. Jo Karev: But if something happened if it did we could gather the evidence and seal it away until you are ready to do something about it.
- Abby: We all know if I do that kit, it ends up in the back of some police station, ignored for years while I sit there wondering when the bomb will go off, waiting to see if a jury of my peers will believe a woman who wore a skirt a few inches too short, who had a few cocktails too many at a bar last night after having a fight about laundry with her husband. And you know the tequila I drank will make it my fault, and whoever did this to me, whatever he drank that'll be his excuse! Is your kit gonna convince them I wasn't flirting at the bar? If I give them my story and my underwear, will it prove to them or to my husband that I didn't cheat on him and make up some story just to save my own ass? Will your kit do that?
- Dr. Jo Karev: My ex-husband, he hurt me. Not in the way that you were hurt, but he hit me, he hurt me, for years. And I was so, so terrified. And so convinced that no one would believe me, and I was so, so alone. I never had the chance or the choice to hold him responsible. I can't imagine how you are feeling right now. I can't. But one day, you might feel differently. You might want justice and I want you to have everything you need to do that.
- Abby: My husband. He can never know.
- Dr. Teddy Altman: He won't have to.
- Abby: Do it. Just do the damn kit.