This episode is not sort of the ones that oblige you to cry, instead it is highly psycological review from real life what happens step by step in some families in same situation. More the script writers logically lead us and prepare for R & B divorce, more I do hope it won't happen to them. Still it is so real to watch how and where the fight begins, how it develops, how the wrong words declared under emotional instability spoil and increase the conflict - the conflict that began many years ago but successfully smothered so far. So far but not forever as the bomb must explode and real feeling must come out on the surface. Once you depress yourself and once you feeling uncomfortable for a long time there is no other way but to come out. The freaky moment is that no one expects to say bad words towards your mate, no one want to hurt and rarely you know what and when exactly hurts, when the bomb explode, it is just feelings that you express.
Me personally, I don't understand how it can be stopped since the conflict is accumulated for many years, this thing - that thing, and here you go non-satisfied with what happenning in your life. Is it possible to smooth all these years the conflict, to find out in advance and be smart enough to predict the consequences? Years ago Beth sacrified her careeer in front of her family, and obviously it was a good decision, who can blame her? In what period of time she had to stop and think whether it was a good idea? The advisers say "you must not forget youself, you must say everything what is in your mind" but how use it in the real unstoppable life fullfilled with children, family, and when you think you did it for the good? I do hope they will find the way out other that divorce and show us how to do it, how to care about each other, how to find solutions suitable for them both.
Review of R & B
