Forget about the acting, let's dissect the plot. So after they discover their daughters were switched at the hospital where they were born. The three parents of the two girls are summoned to the hospital for a meeting in the attendance of a counselor! What a stupid notion!!!! Now I am not expert in American law but I am pretty damn sure that in a situation like this hospitals cannot make any suggestions whatsoever unilaterally I(the children decide for themselves who they want to live with)! ONLY COURTS CAN MAKE DECISIONS!