Take care of yourself first; only a filled cup can pour into others.
The pastor could be happy alone or with anyone. He tried to help people who he couldn't help and his joy drained with theirs. He was a self-created martyr. His pain was unnecessary, as he himself said earlier.
The wife could be happy alone or with anyone. She was in it for the emotional roller coaster. She wants emotion of any sort rather than mundane steady happiness. She states her failures in the beginning and they strongly allude to this.
Both mothers see the future. Our family generally knows us apart from our self-delusion. Respect other people and consider their perspectives. Then make your own decisions. But the mothers couldn't stop fate. Best to go with the flow when fate is unavoidable.
Painful to watch but bittersweet because we can choose to avoid this sort of pain. We can choose decisions which give us joy, and when we have joy, then the joy is shared naturally with others.
The pastor could be happy alone or with anyone. He tried to help people who he couldn't help and his joy drained with theirs. He was a self-created martyr. His pain was unnecessary, as he himself said earlier.
The wife could be happy alone or with anyone. She was in it for the emotional roller coaster. She wants emotion of any sort rather than mundane steady happiness. She states her failures in the beginning and they strongly allude to this.
Both mothers see the future. Our family generally knows us apart from our self-delusion. Respect other people and consider their perspectives. Then make your own decisions. But the mothers couldn't stop fate. Best to go with the flow when fate is unavoidable.
Painful to watch but bittersweet because we can choose to avoid this sort of pain. We can choose decisions which give us joy, and when we have joy, then the joy is shared naturally with others.