As a man who lost faith in love, I use this show as a therapy tool to help me narrow down the qualities in a woman that may help me choose better via a vicarious look into the cast members lives. It does not let me down. The vulnerability that is forced to be front and center exposes the good as well as the bad. That balance paints the kind of picture I appreciate. Im not fully ready to get back out there, but I do know the woman I cannot be with. She will have to show me she is willing and able to make me a better man. In turn I will show reciprocity. I thank the creators for a job well done. Who knows. Maybe one day I could be on there with my new lady 🙏🏾