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From one Steve Bailey to another - Terrific show!
RussianPantyHog1 September 2004
I don't like "reality tv", especially AMERICAN reality tv; but this show is awesome. I was hooked from the start. The idea was SO unique and original. Randi Coy (a real-life Barbie doll) is offered $500,000 to pretend she's taken part in a reality show and fallen in love with "Steve", a fellow contestant. To win the money she has to allow a crew to film her and Steve together & with her family, friends and colleagues. She's got to announce their Engagement and get them all to come to their almost instant "wedding", where the truth will finally be revealed. The real 'show' will be the harmless fun they have, shocking everyone by pretending to be an item. Of course, we know (and Randi doesn't) that it's HER who's being set up more than anyone. She thinks Steve is simply a regular guy on the same $500,000 promise as herself. He's actually an actor (and an extremely talented one)and his 'brief' is to be as obnoxious and embarrassing as possible. From start to finish, it's hilarious. SO many times I actually had to 1/2 look away from the screen, it's that 'cringe-worthy' I've heard people say the show was cruel and that it almost tore the Coy family apart. Well, so what. Families THAT perfect deserve it :) I really loved the way Randi's family got so carried away by their shock they never stopped to wonder if they were being scammed. Jesus. All those cameras and film crew, and they never suspected. Doh!! Having said that, I thought Randi was actually a really nice girl. The show put her through hell and I'm sure she'll be a better person for it. The scene where she had to share supper with Steve's "family", especially his death-obsessed "sister", was priceless. Time and time again I thought Randi's Dad would either physically attack Steve, or call him aside and try to pay him off. Steve Bailey was just excellent. Completely professional. You can tell there were times where he wanted to 'reveal all' or play things down to avoid hurting Randi's feelings, but no. He played it straight and helped her win the money. In spite of looking and sounding like the little brother of Michael Moore (a REAL fat obnoxious guy), I think Steve Bailey's a star in the making, and I hope to see him in some major roles in the future. I didn't think the show was cruel because IT didn't make fools of Randi and her family. It allowed them to make clowns of themselves, and I hope they'll be laughing about it for years to come. Yeah, delightful.
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10/10
Hilarious! Great Show! Legit reality show! Joe Schmo 1&2, also legit!
nlytnd_18 August 2014
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Legit is important to me, because it's virtually non existent in reality shows. People are coached to act out, it's scripted, or if it's a a prank type of scenario, people often find out and play along as if they don't know (like most episode's of punk'ed the person realizes it and plays along as if they don't know and every single episode of scare tactics the target person is in on it). Sorry, I'm really cocky when it comes to psychology and I can tell very easily with 99+% certainty when something falls into one or multiple of those scenarios. The cool thing about this show and the Joe Schmo Show's...people are knowingly actors to the audience and the targets aren't aware of it...in this instance the targets are with 100% certainty not in on it, nor did they figure it out along the way. This family they choose is one of the most uptight families you'll ever see... And the chick target (Randy) in this is one of the most stuck up people I've ever witnessed (not a good person), which is the only bummer, because it would have been cool to see a nice chick get the money, but the joke wouldn't have played as well. Spoilers One of the highlight moments for me was when they had to go see a sex therapist (who wasn't in on it). Randy is soo uncomfortable and so embarrassed...I was on the floor rolling. The family was soo uptight the show wound up doubling the money to 2 million, because the family started wigging out. They're crying...the families dividing....weirdest thing ever. It's like, big deal, your daughter/sister is making a mistake because she's marrying this dude. So she get's married then get's divorced... big deal. To this family it's the end of the world. So the show had to make the finale super corny by making the theme the Coy's family love for one another...this proves what a tight nit family the Coy family is, with such strong bonds that this tore them apart, etc, etc. When in all actuality The Coy family is super strict and uptight and probably for the first time in their life they couldn't control the outcome for one of their siblings and it's like salt in a wound. When all is done, you end up with one of the few and only authentic reality shows.
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9/10
Obnoxious indeed, but entertaining fare!
OllieSuave-0075 April 2017
This is a rather exciting reality show starring Steven W. Bailey, where he pretends to be a reality show contestant who must get married to a woman, Randi Coy, to win $1 million. However, Randi was told that if she takes part in a fake wedding to Steven , she will win $250,000 for her, and her family also gets $250,000. However, the catch is, Steven's obnoxious, over-the-top behavior drives Randi and her family crazy.

Plenty of unpredictable moments along with some humor and surprises. Emotions are played and dramatic moments go full blast. Like the title, the show can be too obnoxious but it's certainly quite entertaining.

Grade A-
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Greatest Reality Show Ever!
teddyryan24 February 2004
MY BIG FAT OBNOXIOUS FIANCE is the beacon of reality TV. Unlike a bunch of people scrambling for wood in Africa or couples bickering on a remote island in the South Pacific, its contestants are caught in the throws of a painfully agonizing courtship.

The Coy family truly suffers when they meet Randy's fiance Steve Williams (eloquently played by Steven W. Bailey).

Steve's antics are always entertaining, making one amazed the Daddy Coy didn't come after him with a sledge hammer (or some type of large mallet).

Unfortunately, this presentation had to be rigged. The Coys, on the brink of complete emotional breakdown, pay no heed to the omnipresent cameras surrounding them. Furthermore, knowing the amount of initial money FOX probably shelved for their participation, I'm surprised the brothers Coy allowed themselves to be filmed wearing kilts.

In fact, the program leads me back to square one: reality TV is anything but reality.

Nonetheless, FIANCE'S entertainment value had me on the edge of my seat for many a Monday night. So, with full confidence, I declare last night's season finale to be the greatest moment to be broadcast on an American network since Neil Armstrong graced the lunar surface over 33 years ago.
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Started great, but ended badly
Ace_of_Sevens11 July 2004
I'm a huge fan of the reality prank show sub-genre, but I strongly dislike mean-spirited reality shows. I don't think it was the producer's intention to be mean spirited. It certainly didn't seem to be aimed at humiliating the participants.

The first couple episodes of this show were hilarious with Steve putting Randi through a private hell with his obnoxious behavior, but things turned south in the final episodes with Randi's family. The bottom line is that irritating people and their victims are funny, but real families nearly being torn apart aren't.

I know some reviews have said the last couple episodes worked as drama, but I disagree. Drama needs to have some sort of point to work, and as often happens with reality, there was no clear point here.

These problems really should have been foreseeable. I don't know what the producers were thinking. As it was, it wrecked the show. If you want to see reality prank TV done right, skip this one and watch The Joe Schmo Show.
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FUNNY SHOW
jth19842 February 2004
Steve "Williams" is so funny! If he weren't acting or if Randi weren't such a prude I MIGHT feel sad for her. But the fact is the way he acts is exactly what she deserves! I would make the perfect fiance for season 2!!!
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Awesome
ByHisStripes25 February 2004
I agree fully with Ted Ryan. It was the best "reality" show to date. Looked forward to each episode. And the finale was the perfect icing on the cake. Steve Bailey did an awesome job as the 'less than desirable' obnoxious fiance. And Randi was so gracious despite is many shortcomings and stumbles. I am surprised that when he got two little words (I do) from ending it and messed that up that she didn't go for his throat. But even when she thought that she and her family had lost 1/2 million dollars she still didn't berate him. The only bad thing is, they will never be able to repeat it. I would recommend this show to anyone. As Steve put it, it went off in a whole new direction than what they thought it would. Well done Fox!
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Look before you Leap!!!
juanita-523 February 2004
OK I am not the biggest fan of reality TV. It is a guilty pleasure that we all indulge in...a lot more often then a we should. But yes, I do get a sick and perverse pleasure from watching others humiliate and degrade themselves for my entertainment. Yes, they do get money for their "troubles"...SOMETIMES...SOMETIMES. That scares me, some of them just walk away ashamed and with their tails between their legs. However, this show, before her poor family got pulled into her web of greed, I was laughing my rear off. He tortured her and it was GREAT, I LOVED IT. But her family and all they went through, I felt so awful for them. And her dad said it best, no amount of money is worth risking your family over. Whatever she said her intentions were, money for her family, and all of that quasi-noble stuff, she was still doing it for money and that was kind of sad. But hey, if they made a second one, I'LL BE WATCHING IT EVERY WEEK. I would love to be the obnoxious fiance. ya think FOX would go for an female to torture a man???????
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Her family must be in on the joke
davchanan16 February 2004
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Spoiler There has to be some kind of twist at the end, besides her finding out that Steve is an actor. I have to believe that her family is in on the joke in some way as well. They sibs are protesting way too much. And, the producers wouldn't want to make it easy on her.

I may have it all wrong, but there is more to this.
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